Mismatched libidos
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Mismatched libidos
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:19pm |
Men are always commenting that the women here seem to have more active sex lives than any women they know in real life.
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:19pm |
Men are always commenting that the women here seem to have more active sex lives than any women they know in real life.
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Who has the higher sex drive in your relationship? If you're higher libido than your partner, what are you willing to do about it?
I have the higher sex drive, but from what I have seen in surveys and such, my drive is actually fairly normal. What am I willing to do about it? Well I am certainly NOT:
...going to try and tame it, I will continue to embrace it and make it visible to everybody that I meet
...going to 'talk' about it any more. we have talked the topic to the point that it is a very undesirable issue
...going to fill my time with something else. really, there is no substitute
...going to ever not be Talbed on this board or allow my participation here to be a frustration rather than an inspiration and place to make great friends
...going to feel sorry for myself...that erodes confidence and joy
...going to stop my rich and growing fantasy life...one day it will realize itself.
...going to abandon my 'tushy fetish'...that would require a form of lobodomy! LOL
Edited 7/10/2006 3:35 pm ET by talbed
Edited 7/11/2006 9:16 am ET by talbed
We're well-matched, libido wise.
Our libidos are about the same. But our "adventurousness" (is that even a word?) is not.
EDITED FOR PUNCUATION MISTAKE!
Edited 7/11/2006 12:13 pm ET by joiseyonceagain
As I've posted before I really need a sexytary.
IRL I had a sexytary from mid-2004 until mid-2005. A hottie young enough to be my daughter (born when I was 18). She was dating/sleeping with a lawyer friend of mine. Only woman I knew who shaved her arms (She also shaved some more conventional places as well.).
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