Mismatched libidos

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mismatched libidos
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Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:19pm

Men are always commenting that the women here seem to have more active sex lives than any women they know in real life.

 

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:34pm

Who has the higher sex drive in your relationship? If you're higher libido than your partner, what are you willing to do about it?

I have the higher sex drive, but from what I have seen in surveys and such, my drive is actually fairly normal. What am I willing to do about it? Well I am certainly NOT:

...going to try and tame it, I will continue to embrace it and make it visible to everybody that I meet
...going to 'talk' about it any more. we have talked the topic to the point that it is a very undesirable issue
...going to fill my time with something else. really, there is no substitute
...going to ever not be Talbed on this board or allow my participation here to be a frustration rather than an inspiration and place to make great friends
...going to feel sorry for myself...that erodes confidence and joy
...going to stop my rich and growing fantasy life...one day it will realize itself.
...going to abandon my 'tushy fetish'...that would require a form of lobodomy! LOL

Edited 7/10/2006 3:35 pm ET by talbed




Edited 7/11/2006 9:16 am ET by talbed
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:28am
I think we are equally matched in the libido dept, though sometimes I am higher, and sometimes he is.


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Registered: 05-24-2003
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 10:57am

We're well-matched, libido wise.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 12:13pm

Our libidos are about the same. But our "adventurousness" (is that even a word?) is not.

EDITED FOR PUNCUATION MISTAKE!




Edited 7/11/2006 12:13 pm ET by joiseyonceagain
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 3:47pm
You edited the punctuation mistake, but then you spelt punctuation wrong LOL.

 


 


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Registered: 05-15-2006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 3:57pm

As I've posted before I really need a sexytary.

IRL I had a sexytary from mid-2004 until mid-2005. A hottie young enough to be my daughter (born when I was 18). She was dating/sleeping with a lawyer friend of mine. Only woman I knew who shaved her arms (She also shaved some more conventional places as well.).

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:18pm
She sounds interesting! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:22pm
In terms of her sex drive she reminds me of someone else in her late 20's that I know!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:27pm
Hmmmm... there should be more women with that kind of sex drive! ;)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2006
Tue, 07-11-2006 - 4:30pm
Do you know any?

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