Missionary Activities

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Registered: 10-16-2005
Missionary Activities
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Fri, 12-22-2006 - 8:38pm
when ever i'm in the missionary position, i realize that i have nothing to do but lie there and maybe writhe around a little bit. Then i hear the complaining the next day that i did nothing (despite that i gave oral and was pretty much hands on before intercourse happened). So I was wondering what I can do while I'm on my back. What should I do with my hands, what can i do with my legs? etc etc etc....
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Registered: 12-22-2006
Sat, 12-23-2006 - 11:17pm
I sometimes feel that way, only I do not think that my DH thinks that I do nothing. How about encouraging him with a story...
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Registered: 04-27-2006
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 12:21am
My girlfriend wraps her legs around me when we have intercourse in the missionary position and she moves and writhes against me and rocks her hips and rises to meet my thrusts and put her hands on my behind and roams them around my body and down my back.
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Registered: 12-21-2006
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 2:01am

The first thing is not to be thinking about what you're doing with your legs, etc. It will keep you out of your groove. If you just concentrate on loving what he's doing and let your body do whatever it takes to wring more out of him, it will show. If you let your p**sy get really hungry for him you'll start pushing up for more, pulling his hips down with your heels, straining for the orgasm...

You not doing anything bothers him because of what it means more than enything else. Anyone wants their partner to be so turned on they lose some control. If you concentrate on feeling that way it will come out and he'll be happy.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 2:28am

If he's lying on you with all his weight on you, then you really can't do much. If he has his weight on his hands, then you could do the following:

Meet each of his thrusts.

When he's grinding into you, you could grind back as well.

When he stops thrusting for a break at any stage, lift your hips off the ground (or wherever you are) and then grind, swirl and thrust your own hips, just to drive him crazy.

Your hands: tickle his thighs, fondle his testicles, gently stroke his perineum (the bit between his testicles and anus. You will have to twist your torso to reach, and this often easier if your legs are over his shoulders, or feet are on his chest, or whatever.

Grab his butt and pull him into you.


 


 


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Registered: 09-16-2003
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 9:34am
we rarely do just plain old missionary, it's hard for me to come that way.


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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 9:43am
You have hands, fingers, lips, teeth,legs and feet, I am sure you can come up with something using those items to make him feel you are more into it.
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Registered: 10-16-2005
Sun, 12-24-2006 - 1:30pm
thanks guys. I try telling him that we could get in other positions but apparently he likes missionary and so do i so that my fat doesn't knock him around lol. And i'm really short compared to him so I can't really reach those places you suggested but I guess I can become more kinkier!! :D
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 12-25-2006 - 9:43pm

Dh likes to have his neck and ears and shoulders and nipples licked and sucked and nibbled on.

 

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Registered: 07-03-2006
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 5:16pm
I love it when I back out and my partner takes my penis and masterbates me against her clit. Then when we are both close re enter and she encourages my thrust by pulling my butt in to her.

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 04-17-2001
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 5:25pm

Have him hold his wieght on his hands instead of fully covering you. While he is doing this use your hands to play with your nipples and breasts or your clit. I;m sure he won't mind the extra show.

Another trick is to tighten and loosen your vaginal muscles while he is thrusting. Have him go slow and you squeeze and release hold it for a few seconds or just a couple.

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