Monogamist roll call (LOL)

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Registered: 07-26-2004
Monogamist roll call (LOL)
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Fri, 04-07-2006 - 9:23pm
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Edited 4/10/2006 7:08 pm ET by blue_azulene

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 04-07-2006 - 9:38pm

>>> I'm definitely kinky, but 100% monogamist.

ditto, and thanks for starting the thread.

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Registered: 07-26-2004
Fri, 04-07-2006 - 10:10pm
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Edited 4/10/2006 7:09 pm ET by blue_azulene
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Registered: 03-25-2006
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 12:09am

Me, too!

SMT

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 10:16am

Albeit I'm a divorcee, but I stick with the man I'm with

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 6:25pm

Hmmmm.... Is monogamy an alternative lifestyle?

Despite repeated requests for a nonmonogamist support board, iVillage feels that the numbers just aren't there yet to support a board like that. So at least for now, this is our only "meeting" place, and it is a place that we happily share with other alternative lifestyles.

I'm feeling a bit irritated about a monogamist roll call in this folder. BD/SM is another alternative lifestyle. If we had a BD/SM roll call in this folder, would it be appropriate to immediately post a non-BD/SM roll call in this folder too, so those who don't care for BD/SM could rally? Or would another folder be more appropriate, as most people are *not* into BD/SM?

I dunno. Maybe I should have slept more last night. But I don't think this was appropriate.




Edited 4/8/2006 6:54 pm ET by naughtygirl23

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 8:15pm
Whoa, naughtygirl, by posting in this thread I in no way intended to rain on your parade or to pass judgement on a lifestyle that I don't happen to practice, nor did I read any such intent in any of the other posts here.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2003
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 10:37pm
Why post a monogamist roll call here? Honestly, I don't think that this was any plot or scheme to keep someone down or anything silly like that. But really, what was the thought? (It's an honest question- I'm not trying to blow this up into some thang.)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Sat, 04-08-2006 - 10:41pm
As I was not the original poster, it's not really my place to try and answer that. I do think you're blowing this way out of proportion, though. It's a thread, it's not interfering with your thread in any way, what's the problem?


Edited 4/8/2006 10:53 pm ET by bostonsteve
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Registered: 12-24-2005
Sun, 04-09-2006 - 3:17am

>>how many kinky monogamists post here?


I read it as a 'kinky monogamist' roll-call, not simply a 'monogamist' roll-call. The OP simply forgot to put that into the discussion title.


Any difference there?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Sun, 04-09-2006 - 7:51am
I would agree, Mr. E, that I also took this to be a roll call for people who consider ourselves kinky or to lead alternate lifestyles in spite of our monogamy, not because of it.

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