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Mother, daughter lovers
| Wed, 08-09-2006 - 7:55am |
I'm a 37 yo single mother, divorced from my first and only husband. I was dating a man for months and we had talked about getting married but I was reluctant. I became a mother in high school at 17 and my daughter is 8 months pregnant by my ex boyfriend. He sometimes came and spent the weekend with us and last December I received a call that my father had been hospitalized so I had to go out of town and they were together from Saturday until Sunday that weekend. I didn't dream that they'd have sex but obviously from her belly they did. She was never very interested in boys and she still refers to herself as a lesbian but I know that she's bi sexual. I actually had been trying to get pregnant by him but it didn't happen and I still have feelings for him and he's begged me for another chance and I want to be with him. My daughter says that it's her fault that she went to bed with him but he hasn't made excuses and has said that it's his fault that it happened. He's 35 and I don't know what to do but I want him but every time I look at my daughter I know it will never be the same.

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I'm a man,I NEVER would have stooded that low and did anything like that to the woman I am
with before we got married and she had a 21 yr old daughter at the time whom is 23 now.We had problems and still do sometimes,But I'm not gonna have sex with her daughter because we don't have sex sometimes.
1.Question:How old was your daughter at the time of this happening? and
2.If I were a woman and was you I would tell him NO WAY,because You don't need no one like that in your life.Now if he's gonna be there for his child,he just do as that,but for as being in a relationship you and him,NO I honest doen't think it will work.Come on that's your child he slept with and got pregnant.Go out and find someone that is much better than he is.Someone who is much delicated and there are very good ones out there
you just have to look.
That's my opinion and I truely hope that you will see what I am saying.
Good Luck,
Howie_t
One might add that depending on the daughter's age at the time she was impregnated, the boyfriend's age, and the state/country where all of this has taken place, there is a chance that he is guilty of statutory rape.
Shouldn't mom be troubled by this??
Thay guy dosnt desirve to be around you or your daughter. Even if it meant that you would have to help raise that baby without him..
Man that just rattles my cage something terrible.... Hdog
Hi, Lyn.
I was the school whore too, so you're not going to get any judgments from me.
Lyncook,
That is great on what you know and he is doing.Hope everything goes well for you and her,But you is gonna have to decide which way you really want to go with this,and I know which ever way you choose you are not gonna be loved no less from your family and friends and If I was a friend of yours I wouldn't.I can only tell you what I would do in you case,But another thing,everyone is not alike.I also would like to say this too,that if you don't mind.No matter what anyone say or tell you. You have to decide for yourself and whatever you decide you would only have to answer to one person with whatever decissions you have made with this.Don't let NO one talk you into nor push you into something that you are not sure of.What I am really saying is you go the way your heart is telling you.
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