My relationship's over

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Registered: 08-12-2002
My relationship's over
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 9:09am

Yep, that's right, it's over. Why? Because SO just happened to decide to browse the taboos site the other night and read all the stuff in my last torch - including the explicit details of my sexual past. Why he decided to do that, I don't know.

As far as he's concerned, I was in a relationship with him, and I shouldn't have even been thinking about my past at all. And on top of that I shouldn't have been posting the details on the internet - especially on a messageboard where people know my first name, age, and location, among other things about me.

You win some, you lose some I guess.

 


 


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 3:59pm

{{Jan}}

 

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 7:51pm
Jan, I am so sorry to hear this. It seems incomprehensible to me that someone would make such a big deal out of something posted on a message board, but I know that you and your SO are both fairly young so maybe he still has some growing up to do. I do not really know you well, nor you me, and I'm sure that advice from a man is the last thing that you want right now, so I'll just leave you with a wish that however this works out for you that you are able to find peace and happiness in your life.
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 7:55pm

When I finally went to sleep at 4.30am, he had begun to settle down, talking to him over the internet. But he lost his broadband connection for a while, and I was too tired to wait for him to come back online, so that was when I went to sleep. Today, however, his mood seems to have gotten worse again. We aren't chatting about the problem at hand, just everything else.

I doubt much will be resolved today - I start my new part-time job at 4pm today, and I'm working until midnight. It's just a job at a local supermarket to give me extra money while I'm doing my thesis. Unfortunately I'm going to be around customers a bit, and it's going to be fun holding my mood high all night and make a good impression on my boss. (ex?)SO's doing volunteer work from 1pm at the local museum. It will be at least tomorrow afternoon until things can be sorted out, if they will get sorted out.

 


 


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:11pm

Maybe a cooling off period will help.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:14pm
Hey, just cos I'm having issues with one man, doesn't make me a man hater! I welcome advice from anywhere.

 


 


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