number of partners.....

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number of partners.....
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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 9:33am
does your current partner, if you have one, know how many sexual


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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 10:06am

She knows. It ain't something I was proud of, but those were different times...



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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 10:19am
Yes he knows. It took him a little bit to kind of "get over it" so to speak. Not that I have had that many(only single digits), but the fact of my age and the time frame. Now it's not a big deal, but we usually don't talk about it either.

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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 10:34am
Yeah DH knows.
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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 10:54am
I do not currently have an SO, but I have never told anyone how many partners I have had out of fear of being judged. I even think that it is a lot, but I went through some hard times after I was raped and slept with too many people. I got over it and then I was raped again and it just seemed to start all over again.
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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:01am
To a point, yes. We've been active with others since we got together, and I don't think he has kept track of the "score" but he knows about every partner I've been with.

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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:01am
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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:10am

SCL--One of my BFF went through this, and I made the mistake of confronting her on it.

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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:10am
Interesting question! There can be great debate over this topic and valid arguments that can go either way.
My DW knows my pitiful number (depending on how you look at it I guess) and I have known in phases her numbers (lol!!) It started out low and one by one kept increasing as situations of revelation came about. Little does she know I know her real number (from a close mutual acquaintence) and it is more than her last number she told me many years ago. Let's just say there is a canyon between her count and my own. And honestly, I sought her out because of her higher number! I didn't want an unexperience angel but a tried and true vixen. The only time it became an issue is when she decided there would be two parts of her life...the one before me and after me. And the one before me was way more fun...
And here is part 2 of this question...do you know details?! That is the knowledge I also possess for much of the storied past. I married a vixen for sure who morphed on our wedding day.
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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:15am
DH knows my estimated number, I am not even sure.


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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 11:32am

For sure, dh knows the numbers, not something I even considered hiding.

Now the question is, How many has he been with? Never gotten an answer to that one. It's funny because he squirms trying to answer it, he simply can't remember, he just knows he had a revolving door for a while.

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