Odd Question for the Ladies

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Odd Question for the Ladies
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Mon, 07-31-2006 - 11:04pm

Say a family friend had an 18yo son who was a virgin. He approaches you and says he wants you to be his first, and his parents will never know anything about it. In the past, however, Dad says he'd rather his son lose his virginity with an older woman he is comfortable being around and will not hurt him rather than some random high school girl. If there was a guarantee that the parents would never find out it was you who deflowered their boy, would you agree to "make him a man"?

I had a dream about this and it has been bothering me. Our friends have a boy who I am friends with, as I'm basically a 32yp teenager, and we have a lot of interests in common. He is only 16, but in the dream he was 18. I don't know what to think about it, really. The thought is compelling, as it is excellent fodder for a struggling writer like myself, but disturbing because, well, he is a kid.

Your thoughts?

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 12:13am
If he is of legal age, and both of you are comfortable, and you can guarantee for certain that his parents wouldn't find out, then I don't see a problem with it.

 


 


iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 12:59am

It's a fun fantasy and might make a good story, although I think it's already been told over and over again.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2003
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 11:34pm
This is such a hot fantasy to me. Actually I am the same age as you and I would go for it when he is of age. I don't see why the parents have to be involved in any way. I am quite attracted to younger guys myself and recently I basically had this fantasy come true.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2006
Fri, 08-04-2006 - 5:16am

Very well said, Jazz. I agree.

Chakra

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Fri, 08-04-2006 - 12:49pm
I am confused on the facts of this story...is this guy only 16 in real life? If that is the case, there are women in prison today for sleeping with underaged boys. Depending on your state, it can be a prosecutable crime with prison time (felony). Is that worth it?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2006
Fri, 08-04-2006 - 12:58pm
Sounds like you may be trying to live a fantacy yourself. If you know the boy and his parents, it will be a decision you will both regret, besides it being elegal. Let the kid grow up, he'll have his chance when the time is right.