1. The feeling that I am the hottest person in their life and they would want to be with no one else. 2. The knowledge that they are willing to explore anything with me understanding that I have their pleasure totally in mind. 3. That they are bold yet somewhat timid. That they express their desires and tell me how much they love it, but don't order me around (not every night at least!) 4. That they love being spoiled. 5. That anything shorter than 20 minutes is considered an occassional quickie 6. And the shallow part of me...she has to have a little (everyone say it with me..) 'junk in the trunk' - and very proud of it!
Other than the sex itself (obviously). What makes someone really GREAT for me is confidence and the willingness to try anything (as long as one of us is not intensely against it).
so you have said!! And it seems to be serving you quite well young lady! Apparently I am not the only one that shares that enlightened taste! Now...stop tormenting me! LOL!!!
1. A confident man that is interested in my needs and not only his. 2. A man that makes me feel like I am number one in his life... that makes me feel needed... that makes me feel adored... that makes me feel protected... that makes me feel spoiled. 3. A man that pays attention to my cues... can tell when I'm in the mood for slow and sensuous or fast and furious. 4. A man that likes to take charge most of the time and let me follow. 5. Some teasing... 6. A man that lets me tease him... 7. Lots of eye contact and kissing....
lol to me, what makes some great for me is if that one can do at least more than a minute of foreplay...after that they're my greatest lover. I'm not picky but I'm tired of just wham bam thank you ma'am that leaves me naked wondering 'what just happened?'
OK bayou I agree with all except for maybe #4. A man that likes to take charge most of the time and let me follow. I like this to go both ways depending on my mood. Sometimes I like to just take charge and he follows.
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2. The knowledge that they are willing to explore anything with me understanding that I have their pleasure totally in mind.
3. That they are bold yet somewhat timid. That they express their desires and tell me how much they love it, but don't order me around (not every night at least!)
4. That they love being spoiled.
5. That anything shorter than 20 minutes is considered an occassional quickie
6. And the shallow part of me...she has to have a little (everyone say it with me..) 'junk in the trunk' - and very proud of it!
6. And the shallow part of me...she has to have a little (everyone say it with me..) 'junk in the trunk' - and very proud of it!
LMAO!!!!
2. A man that makes me feel like I am number one in his life... that makes me feel needed... that makes me feel adored... that makes me feel protected... that makes me feel spoiled.
3. A man that pays attention to my cues... can tell when I'm in the mood for slow and sensuous or fast and furious.
4. A man that likes to take charge most of the time and let me follow.
5. Some teasing...
6. A man that lets me tease him...
7. Lots of eye contact and kissing....
now that just outright depressed me...and I am a guy!
I'm sure you can set your sights a little higher than that...there are plenty of good men out there.
Edited 6/30/2006 4:09 pm ET by talbed
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