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| Sat, 03-25-2006 - 12:40am |
Ok...I was cybering last night with my threesome partner and suddenly we could not stop desire...he jumped into his car and "snuck" over...we had an awesome evening, two hours of the best sex and talking and kissing and snuggling I have had in ages. My DH has given permission in the past to be alone with our friend, but only when he knows prior....
I am afraid to tell him, I don't want him to be so mad that we stop this, and I don't want him to feel hurt because I didn't let him know before hand...he works nights and I cannot call him at work except for emergencies....should I let this one time slide or should I tell him? I need opinions!
I am afraid to tell him, I don't want him to be so mad that we stop this, and I don't want him to feel hurt because I didn't let him know before hand...he works nights and I cannot call him at work except for emergencies....should I let this one time slide or should I tell him? I need opinions!

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I agree with Steve.
that wanted this, arranged it, we both have set up our meetings, and everything has been ok...I just was unsure...I did talk to him more tonight about what he thought of it without telling him I had already done it, his only concern is us getting caught, it would be devastating to all of us, being as where we come from and knowing each others families etc....After talking to DH I feel re-assured that he is ok with it other than that factor.. so I think I will wait awhile then tell him about it. I don't want him thinking I am irresponsible for risking getting caught....we were perfectly safe but Dh is paranoid. LOL Another thing is my DH knows how much I am attracted to our friend, we really do talk a lot about all of it, he knows that sometimes I want to give our friend more because he goes longer without! LOL He wants me to please both of them and I just need to get over the fear of telling him about doing this one time without his knowledge.
I will do it and let you know what he says.
Thanks for the responses...I appreciate the opinions :-)
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