Oral Sex: A Step-by-Step Guide????

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2006
Oral Sex: A Step-by-Step Guide????
11
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 4:39pm

Ok so I followed and advertisment to this:

http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,traceycox_88pqgx19,00.html

I was agreeing with everything up until this part:

"Once he's had his orgasm, stop everything ‑- no stimulation whatsoever. Post-orgasm sensitivity doesn't just affect females."

Has any guy out there experinced this? Where you have an orgasm then want them to stop because it is to sensitive for a while?

Ladies have you ever been with a guy who didn't want you to touch him down there after he had an orgasm?

I'v never experienced this or heard about this. I couldn't imagine anytime that being touched, licked, sucked down there wouldn't feel awesome.

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2006
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 4:49pm
I agree that I wouldn't want my wife to stop everthing when I orgasm but my head does get very sensitive. I like her to lick me up and down and gently across the head after but hard sucking gets a little uncomfortable. But I would never want her to stop completely.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2005
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 11:21pm

No stim whatsoever after orgasm because of penile sensitivity? Not necessary for me.


Like the previous poster said, the head can get somewhat oversensitive, and I'd like her to let up over there. But the only reason I'd want her to let up altogether after an orgasm is if I'm just tuckered-out and want to nap.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2004
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 12:42am

My husband, on a few instances, in the past 26+ years has needed me to stop after his orgasm because of sensitivity. However, usually we like for me to continue gentle suckling and have drifted off to sleep with me still down there. Another fave, is for me to move up and get cuddled by him and I hold and gently rub his penis as it recovers.

I guess it's an individual thing, because you mentioned women being too sensitive after their orgasms, and I rarely am.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 4:25am
I'm always a little more sensitive down there post-orgasm (and often very ticklish) but not to the point that I'd want her to stop everything, just ease up a little bit.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2005
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 6:01am
my bf is very sensitive..I can still touch him but gently and he has to have what he calls "recover time" after we've had sex...I don't know if it bothers him the same after oral or not.
Avatar for cl_littlemascara
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2003
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 7:39am
my DH likes me to just hold it in my mouth for a bit, and then clean him off. :)


iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2005
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 8:26am
I am definately more sensitive after orgasm, DW will usually just gently hold me in her mouth and clean me off as I'm softening. Dw becomes very sensitive after orgasm and doesn't like any direct clitoral stimulation right after orgasm.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2006
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 8:35am
Yeah She lost me when she stated men do not like actually to be sucked, PURE NONSENSE. My men love me to lick, kiss & SUCK! Also after they love to be kissed & lick while I tell them how good they taste & feel in my mouth. I'm not sure she's ever sucked a guy off!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 3:19pm
Dh's head gets a little sensitive, but he wants some stimulation to continue.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 03-31-2006 - 3:36pm
OMG I DO know what this is about... my fiance is so sensitive after that I have to stop. He also has to take it out after sex almost right away. I asked him what the sensitivity feels like and he said that it is like little pin pricks?? Thought I should share though.

Pages