Porn and Your Partner

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Registered: 03-17-2005
Porn and Your Partner
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Fri, 07-21-2006 - 12:56pm

You come home and find your SO watching a porno and self pleasuring themselves!!!! What is your reaction!!!

My response would be to faint b/c I would be shocked that she was watching it but once i woke up I would be soooooo turned on!!! I would just sit back and watch for a bit...telling her to pretend i am not even there and then i would crawl over to where she was sitting and begin orally helping her out!!!!! I think it is just soooo sexy to watch a female masterbate!!!! A secret fantasy of mine is to catch my DW pleasuring herself and get to watch her with out her knowing that I am watching....

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Registered: 06-28-2006
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 8:35pm
I have asked him a couple times but I can tell he's a little uncomfortable by the idea. I don't want to put pressure on him about it so I don't bring it up too often. So for me, catching him off guard might be the only way. The element of suprise is nice too.
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Registered: 12-10-2005
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 9:50pm
You know, it is funny. I'm very wild/adventerous. I like both rough and tender sex. Public places sex. Stripteases, etc.
BUT..porn is a turn-off. If my partner has to watch a stranger instead of ME...well, that stings. I would not like it a bit.
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Registered: 09-21-2004
Sun, 07-23-2006 - 9:50am
First I would pick my jaw up off the floor, then I would head outside to make sure I was in the correct house, then I would be torn between watching him masterbate (b/c in the 14 years I have been with him-he has never masterbated) or joining in.
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Registered: 04-21-2006
Sun, 07-23-2006 - 3:30pm

..it would NOT be a turn off for me. That is a fantasy...to come home after a long day at work. Looking for him, and finding him on the bed...he did not hear me, so I can watch for as long as I can what he is doing.

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Registered: 07-24-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 4:29pm
My DH has caught me. He joins in after waiting for an invitation. He always wants to watch me.
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Registered: 03-11-2005
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 5:58am
My DW and I always watch porn DVD'S as part of foreplay. We lightly masterbate together as we watch. We usually cum from oral or intercourse, but sometimes we cum from masterbation. We also watch the DVD'S while having intercourse in the spoon position. Our favorite DVD'S are group sex.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 4:48pm

Lucky >>>We're discussing his moving in with me<<<


Woohoo!

 

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 7:31pm

No...the damage and limits of his strength and range of motion are too extensive to try yet. He sees the doc next Tuesday. Hopefully we'll know more then.

And yes, I'm sooo excited by the prospect of living together. I've never done that! I just have to keep grounded, don't get ahead of ourselves, and keep in mind that he's Mr. Slow and Steady Wins the Race and I'm a shoot from the hip, fly by the seat of my pants, clean up the mess after kind of gal. It's been an interesting ride so far!!!!

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 9:50pm
Hey Lucky if you dont mind me asking, what happened to him ? It sounds like he had a pretty dramatic event happen in his world ... hdog

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