A questiom to ponder

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A questiom to ponder
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Sat, 12-30-2006 - 7:50pm

A question to ponder. It seems that sexually we like to rate men, fairly of unfairly, by the size of their penis. We some times use the size of their hands and their feet to guess what that penis size will be.
Perhaps then, we should examine this question. Should women be rated by the size of their vaginas. Also, is it true, then, that women with small feet have small vaginas, and women with large feet have larger vaginas.
Then if men with large penises are thought of as being more desirable, then is the revers true that women with smaller vaginas would be more desirable.
More to the point, if penis size, as some women claim, is not important, then is the size of a female's vagina be important.

Lynn

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Sat, 12-30-2006 - 9:05pm

Good question...think there's a bit of a double standard here though...unfortunately. To me personally, penis size does matter. I prefer at least average length and girth. Some women I know prefer a smaller one because they are smaller or more sensitive. I know men have their preferences, as well. Breast size, butt size...and probably vagina size. I am small up top, but have quite the nice tush. So, I date *butt men* because they are attracted to what I've got...lol. After three kids, I've had to work on my kegels to get back the tightness. Haven't had any complaints, but bigger men fit me better...and I fit them better. Everyone should find what works physically for them...it's not unfair to prefer a certain type. That's why we are all made differently...

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Sat, 12-30-2006 - 10:39pm

You are right Double-Dutchess...

We are all different... and we all end up with someone who fits (well... most of us do, anyway)...

It's all about understanding our 'likes and dislikes' and going about our lives accordingly...

jim

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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 1:53am
The hand and foot thing is a complete myth or wives tale, btw. I like a fat kitty and butt.
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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 2:19am

Well... after -7- children I was kind of worried about it. I had a good doctor who said he gave me an extra stitch for my husband's sake but i was still to worried about it to even ask DH. I finally got up the nerve to bring up the subject a few months before he left (5 years after my last baby!) and he said I'm not loose at all. He said he doesn't notice any difference over the years as far as tightness goes.

As for the double standard, when I was playing the field I never had a preference for a certain size. Big went in the front, little went in the back. Variety was the spice of life!

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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 8:39am
Just like men come in all sizes, women come in all sizes.


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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 9:35am

Littlemascara said...

"The important part is finding someone who you like and fits you."

As simple as it sounds, this is it...

Happy New Year!

jim

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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 1:51pm
I believe women worry about being too loose just as much as men think about penis size, but women don't talk about it. The expectation is there that we should be as tight as possible. There's only a double-standard in the sense that more small penis jokes are told than large vagina jokes.
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 1:29am

Isn't that the truth! Maybe that's why some men act so parinoid wondering if they have satisfied us. Richard Pryor had a stand-up comedy routine about how men were actually scared of sex...afraid that they had not done what's necessary to keep us satisfied.

Lynn

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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 8:59am

Some nice gentleman emailed me to say that feet is not an acurate way to estimate penis size. I just mentioned the thing about feet because I'm sure most girls heard this myth as far back as middle school. He said a more accurate way is to measure from the base of a man's palm to the end of the end of his middle finger. Interesting! Now if someone can tell me the best way to estimate his girth. Hmmmmm?

Lynn

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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 9:12am
Hahaha...Big in front, and little in the back. How cool! I really like that. So many post we have read is always about the size thing. Perhaps we might think of this scenerio. A man at his work bench preparing to do a job. He has several tools availble to him...some small and some large. The trick is to choose the right tool and know how to properly use it.
Lynn

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