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| Fri, 11-03-2006 - 1:47pm |
I know this has been asked her a ton of times but just quick from those of you that have actually ordered, what's your favourite adult sites to order movies and toys from? Who is the best as far as being discreet and not hounding you with mail and emails?


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"he isn't feeling close to me lately and can't have sex with someone he doesn't feel close to", I think it will be for solo play.
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SOooooo....he's in touch with his feminine side then? J/K Sorry...I couldn't resist as this usually is my excuse for turning down sex at home.
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How's it going, Chickie? Long time no talk. Everything good with you?
I'll check them out. Thanks.
Hi Gigglegoof,
This is a message I posted to EarthenAngel about a month ago when she had a question about where to get movies. Hope this helps. Sorry I didn't type a personalized message for you, lol. The cut and paste option is just too easy sometimes. Sorry to hear what's going on with you and your husband as well. Maybe he'll change his line of thinking...for me personally, it can be harder to get in the mood if I don't feel particularly close to my husband because of an argument or whatever, but once I get started, the anger/hurt feelings seem to just melt away. It's a very emotional experience sometimes to make love after we've been upset for a while, but it's amazing---I believe it's a true example of "emotional-sexual healing" So in short, I think if your husband at least attempted to again establish a bond with you again on a physical level, the rest would follow. The longer a person abstains from having sex with their spouse, the easier it is to keep doing it. This isn't healthy for either party of the marriage in my opinion. I'm not sure what your exact thoughts are on the the matter, though. Seems as if I remember you saying a little while ago that you hadn't been greatly interested in sexual intercourse lately (you said you lost your mojo), but I'm assuming that doesn't mean that you haven't been interested at all---maybe just not as much as before. If your husband isn't interested in the slightest, then that can certainly effect your interest as well. I would still encourage you to try to cuddle and establish other forms of nonsexual affection with him.
A complete lack of physical affection can prove detrimental to a relationship, particularly if this is something you guys used to do before. Cuddling, hugging, kissing and holding hands can help a couple remember (eventually) why they fell in love and how it all progressed to sexual love. It also helps to preserve the foundation of your physical attraction and love for one another, IMHO. Even though I know you didn't say it, his behavior sounds hurtful. I wish you well and hope you guys can work things out. *Hugs* Take care.
Chakra
"Hi EarthenAngel,
This is a message (below) I posted to another user a while ago on another board. We were discussing about dvd rental services for the softer variety of porn and also how me and my husband screen our movies. These are some of the sources we use. There's also a couple of articles on ivillage.com that talks about "women-friendly" pornography and what companies make these films. They are very informative articles. Hope the resources below help out---if you are able to spare maybe 10.00 to 15.00 bucks a month for the dvd rental service then maybe these websites will be of service to you. Jazz also gave you a very good suggestion about watching "Bliss" on Oxygen network. Bliss is a wonderful erotic show. Also, there is a series called "Show Me Yours" that comes on right before "Bliss". It has great story lines that are centralized around a few main characters, but the episodes are normally very risque and are worth watching. If you have extended cable, then maybe you could try watching the Showtime network at night. They always have a great selection of softcore adult films--very tasteful.
"The way me and my husband normally screen our movies are through adult dvd rental websites that offer reviews or previews of their movies. There are several that we visit, but only a couple that we hold a membership to. I've been considering lately to cancel my memberships,because I mainly watch the softcore/erotica films maybe 2 to 3 times a month, and we only order hardcore every once in a blue moon. I think the rental agreements are more of a deal if you're a heavy porn-watcher, then you'll really be getting your money's worth, lol.--but they do carry a broader selection than what you'd find in most any adult-novelty store, so I guess it balances out. All of these are the "adult film version" of Netflix movie rental service. Bluecine.com, sugardvd.com, freddy and eddy's website (they have a great selection of softcore and erotica),movixo.com, and bluedoor.com. These are all great in helping you pick out movies to watch because they normally break them down into categories such as hardcore, softcore, interracial, fetish, ect. You can choose your desired section and then browse through their movies, and if you're lucky, you'll get to see a clip of the movies. Many times the customers give thorough reviews that can aid in your decision-making of what movies you'd like to view. Overall, this is a pretty good way to weedout which films you don't want before deciding to buy and add them to your permanent collection.---most offer the option to purchase the film you've rented if you'd like.
IMO, Bluecine, and Sugardvd are more prompt about getting your movie to you. The other companies (from what I've heard), are a little slower when it comes to movie exchange. This may be due to the fact that they are smaller businesses. I feel more secure in that just about all of these sites use verisign to back up their validity and are hacker-safe ---this should only be a concern should you decide to make an account with any of these companies. Amazon.com is also another resource you could use. Type in the name of movie you like, and it'll normally bring up similar movies--from there you can read user's reviews as well.
Lastly, if you have an idea of what companies or producers who's work you like, then you can target the movies that way as well. Bluedoor.com also gives you the option of film categories by producers and adult film companies. Hope this helps."
Chakra
Thanks Chakra. I had to laugh when you appologized for not writing me a personal note and then proceeded to write me a huge heartfelt note. Thankyou.
Regarding the movie rental thing, I don't think that is really the route for me. Seeings how I'm around kids from 5 or 6 am until 9 or 10 at night, I don't imagine I'd even have time to watch them to get my money's worth. Not a whole lot of alone time around here. It just seems easier to run down the street to my friendly neighbourhood porn store. LOL. As far as buying goes though I think I'll give it a try, maybe start out with something kinda small in case I'm not happy with it. I don't really have any experience buying on line and even though everyone tells me it's great, like any newbie I'm still a little skeptical. Baby steps.
Hi Tanya,
I had typed the *personalized note message* concerning not writing you personally about the movie rental service (I'm terrible with the cutting and pasting lately), but I didn't even realize that it'd conflict with the idea of the following *heart felt note*, lol. Oh well. Yea, concerning the movies, I understand you being concerned about possibly not getting your money's worth with the movie/mail/return deal. We were using two of the services but have since cancelled one of them. Anyway, have a good morning.
Chakra
I've had really good experience with goodvibes too.
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