At the same time

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At the same time
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 1:42am
My lover and I were alone the other night and I moved my legs up really far and held them with my arms, he let out a moan of ecstasy and told me that was awesome feeling, it felt good for me too and we both climaxed at almost the same time, (he came just a second or two before me) I think it is exciting and a huge turn on that makes the climax even better reaching it at the same time, what do you think? also how often and common is it to reach it at the same time....it doesn't happen too often for me. :-(

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 7:43am
I don't know that I've read any statistics about it.


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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 10:02am
For DW and I it happens frequently. Usually her having an O pushes me over the edge so we climax togather.
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 10:39am

This is what usually happens with DH and I.

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 11:42am
Only happen with WOT for us. And since birth #2, that has totally stopped. I wonder if it is less comfortable for her now or just part of her process of "shutting down" that we went through and I just need to get the "plant back on line"?
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 12:03pm

I can totally understand where she is coming from...sort of...I didn't enjoy it as much either once I started having kids...It almost kinda hurt...We just learned to do modifications of different positions, and they ended up being almost even better than the original way.


So are you guys beginning a come back or was it the cocktails talking?

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 12:09pm
Us? Hard to say. Combination I think. But I am going to handle comeback #2 slightly differently...no talking about it...all action, flirtation and creating the right scenarios...still a tricky proposition. All I have to say is my Sat night was very very hot this weekend.
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 1:16pm

Tallbed that's awsome!!! I hope things continue in the right direction - you deserve it!!

As for me I'm finally healed and can't wait for the first chance at IC after six looong weeks.

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 1:39pm
6 weeks! tough one! that first is going to be mind-blowing (and likely quick). make sure she queued up for another right away! ;^)
you know...she deserves it too. when she really let's go, she has the most intense O's I ever see. If she would just trust herself to me...oh the pleasures she would find. she'll get there...for her sake!
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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 2:47pm

It happens once in awhile for us, but it's one of those things that if you try to hard, it can really screw up your sex life.

 

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Mon, 04-10-2006 - 3:20pm

I try not to focus on orgasm.


If I focus on my partner and my own sensations, the orgasms take care of themselves.


There does seem to be some correlation, though, between the depth to which we're attuned to one another spiritually, and the likelihood of coming together.


If we do have that great 'inner connection' happening, then we'll move together, eventually breath together, and really become 'one.'


It can be truly awesome!




Edited 4/10/2006 9:24 pm ET by mr_e_steubing

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