Sex with relatives

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Sex with relatives
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Wed, 12-01-2004 - 10:54am
Did Adam and Eve have sex with their children?


Edited 12/11/2004 2:47 pm ET ET by angel4u2answeru

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 12:12pm
I'd say you will regret it in the long run. Don't ruin a bond with your sister over an exciting moment. Not worth it. And besides it's just not nature.
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Registered: 09-11-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 12:26pm

This is a post that I saw on another board. The story was very intriguing and I was thinking it might make a good story (???? :o) ) Hey, ya can't make this stuff up!

krn

Here it is just as written:

Lovers Turned Siblings

When I was thirteen I met this guy. He was in my school, and we got along really well. We started going out, but we were only in the eighth grade. So how much could we really do? Well, when I was eighteen and he was nineteen, we started really going steady. One day I was at my house taking a bath. My mom wasn't home, and I thought I had heard something outside. I dismissed it as nothing and just kind of sat there relaxing in the tub. Suddenly I heard my boyfriend, Nicholas, call my name. I was horrified and a little embarrassed. I jumped up and wrapped a towel around me and walked out of the bathroom. "Sorry," I said, "but I was taking a bath." I scattered my mind to see if I had forgotten plans or something, but I hadn't. He just grinned. He said it was no problem and that seeing me in a towel turned him on. I laughed because I thought he was joking. So, I said, "Do you want me?" and he said yes. So I told him he could have me. I was only kidding, but suddenly he pulled me into the bathroom and pushed me down into the tub. He pulled off my towel, and then he got undressed and had his way with me. It was my first time, and it was great. We had sex for three hours in the tub. I swallowed a lot of water, but it was worth it. After that, we started to have frequent, hot sex. We'd do it in public bathrooms, in his car, and stuff like that. A year later our parents, my mom and his dad, confessed something to us. They had been seeing each other and were now engaged. Nicholas and I freaked out! We could barely look at each other. Finally, the wedding happened. We moved into his dad's house, and after that Nicholas and I didn't talk much. After about two weeks, Nicholas finally came into my room and said he couldn't take it anymore. With that, he suddenly jumped me and did me against the wall. We do it all the time now, and our parents don't even know!

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 12:37pm
ok quite seriously though, what about cousins i've heard so many guys say they dont care if shes his cousin or not they'd still have sex with her if she'd let him. do any of you think that is ok or what? i think that it is gross i dont know everyone is entitled to their own opinion but i just dont get that, theres so many people in the world why go to family.
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Wed, 12-01-2004 - 5:21pm

Hi, Angel.

 

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 6:17pm

I feel like this is a set up. I was just telling a friend about my first sexual experience as a teen. Needless to say it involved my brother and touching.

It is wise to steer clear of incest. The best argument (and shortest) I can give is that generations of wise people have adhered to the laws against incest for reasons we should heed.

I think it's very natural though for pre-teens and young teens to do some preliminary experimentation with a sibling that is acessible and close to them. I doubt it rarely gets further than kissing and touching.

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Registered: 01-04-2004
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 6:49pm

I think that sexual curiosity and exploration is a normal part of growing up. I am talking about pre-teens and very young teens. I agree that having kids with a brother or sister is a problem, both genetically and emotionally. But that is a lot different from touching. It is also a problem if one, the boy or the girl, is forced or is a lot older. A lot of kids play doctor or show me yours.... Sometimes with neighbor kids, friends, cousins, or siblings.

tb

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Registered: 12-21-2003
Thu, 12-02-2004 - 4:06pm
I have no idea what is "normal" or not - but has anyone read MiddleSex by Jeffery Eugenedes? I'm not sure if the last name is correct. It is a good book regardless of the topic (I won't spoil it by telling!)
I only had sisters that were enough older than me (i am a female) but experimenting with a sibling when very young may be like experimenting with someone of the same sex - curious with someone you trust - not so much about attraction.
JMHO - goar
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:22am
Genetically, it's not a good idea, breeds a poorer quality child, as you can see by the inbreeding in certain cultures ("if your family tree doesn't branch, you might be a redneck" Jeff Foxworthy). Certain behaviors can be genetically influenced (tendency towards anger, depression, addiction, etc.); genetic diversity creates both stronger, and weaker offspring. The stronger ones survive, creating other combinations with increasingly stronger offspring which eventually become dominant and the weaker combinations die off. You eventually get stronger and smarter animals after many generations. So those with a prediliction for screwing their siblings will eventually die off for the most part, and those who tend to find it distasteful will survive. There will always be some occasional offspring with the desire to procreate within their own gene line, but again, over time they will be in the vast minority. Other than the feelings of guilt involved that is impressed on us by society and religion, sex with relatives really has no danger as long as there is no offspring (who would suffer both genetically and socially). I still wouldn't do it with my sister, and of course I would like you to avoid monopolizing your sisters time so I can have a chance at her. But that's just me.
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Fri, 12-03-2004 - 6:40am
LOL, love your last argument.
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Registered: 12-01-2004
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 3:50pm
I don't believe in having sex with a brother or sister. Although I myself have given into feelings and emotions with a 1st cousin we didn't have sex but we spent the whole night kissing and touching. We have not really talked to each other since then so I dont' really know where our relationship stands now. I don't regret what we done except I kinda wish that it had gone farther. I would really like to be with him if he wasn't my cousin but socity says that we can't. Has anyone ever crossed this line as an adult?

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