Sex on Your Period

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Registered: 05-03-2006
Sex on Your Period
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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 12:19pm

My BF and I had sex yesterday while I was on my period. I could tell I was almost done because of the light bleeding. Anyhoo. He wanted me so bad he didn't care about the blood. Well that's what he thought.....

He bent me over the couch and things were going REALLY good! I hadn't felt him inside me for about a week and a half so I was REALLY enjoying it! But ohh me, I just had to change positions to try and stretch out our sex time. Well we switched to him on top and did that for a few minutes then we wanted to go back to doggie. well as I got up to bend over again blood smeared my leg and butt cheeks. He lost his omph and went limp as a noodle. I made an effort to go to the loo and clean things up but when I came back to him he was fully dressed. =( ohh well. I understand. At least he was standing there with his arms open for a hug!

So he told me that he felt like he was hurting me =( He also felt like he was having sex with a dead person. He also said that the blood on my body was something a serial killer would get off by. TOTALLY UNDERSTANDABLE! =/ So yeah... NO sex for me while I'm on my period. which sucks because I get so turned on during that time of the month... oh well huh, because to him it's a taboo he never wants to touch.

So I suppose my question is...
Do any of you have sex on your period? and how does your partner feel about the blood factor?

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Registered: 07-24-2006
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 9:31pm

Aaww, I'm sorry that he got turned off. That sucks. You probably needed to him to help you through that really horny stage. My sex drive increases during my menstrual cycle as well. Everything seems to be more sensitive and orgasms come on wayyy faster. When we used to attempt to do it with my period on, we would do it on my low flow days, but it still seemed to make a little mess whereever we were. Finally we just decided to do it in the shower. Boy was that ever a good decision! Sex while you're on your moon can actually help to relieve cramps and emotional stress during that time frame.

However, if you do it in the shower, he really doesn't even notice the blood, because water is constantly washing it away. Also, it makes for a quick and easy cleanup right after the all the fun is over. Maybe you can suggest this to him and see what he says. My guy was a little weirded out by the blood at first also, but the first time he saw blood there during my cycle, he said it reminded him of the very first time we had sex (he was my first, so I guess it brought back memories, lol.) If he doesn't want to participate in sexual activity with you during this time, then maybe find other means of pleasing yourself. Using your hands can be quite messy; however I saw an advertisement for the only sex toy endorsed by Dr. Ruth. She says it's an excellent tool for female SOLO sex and is extremely effective. It's called the EROSCILLATOR. Who knows, if you try and like it, let us know how it goes, lol.

Chakra

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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 9:35pm
You know LM I am starting to think we are all sending each other ESP vibes.
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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:10pm

LM & I are on the same cycle - I'm on the pill, not sure if she is. Welcome to the club!






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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:13pm
I really think I need to change my icon up there in the corner.
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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:20pm
LMAO!!!!!

 

 

 

 

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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:23pm
YOu keep laughing your butt off and that butt might not be there one day!
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Registered: 06-23-2006
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:24pm

Do any of you have sex on your period? Yes


and how does your partner feel about the blood factor? No big deal. I've had two children vaginally so he's seen a lot worse, and he's still coming back for more!


AND Deja, LM, and Jazz! Enough with the period thing this week! I got 4 days!!! 4 days I say and I want to keep them!

 

 

 

 

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Tue, 08-08-2006 - 11:27pm
See My whole ESP theory is true.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 12:15am
Wow... most of the women on this board are that close together on their cycles?!?!?! Mine is supposed to be here in 2 days, but I'm messing with my cycle this month... can't be PMSing when we go out of town for our anniversary!!!
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Wed, 08-09-2006 - 12:17am
see I am right!