Spanking...

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Registered: 02-15-2013
Spanking...
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Fri, 02-15-2013 - 10:31pm

I love it when my husbands spanks me when we have sex. Anyone else here like this? What time of scenes do you play? 

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Registered: 02-23-2013
In reply to: MsJodee
Sat, 02-23-2013 - 3:05pm

I've never actually roleplayed during sex, but I do enjoy being spanked now and then! haha

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Registered: 11-01-2012
In reply to: MsJodee
Fri, 03-01-2013 - 2:08pm

It's not really role-playing, I guess, because I get so excited I don't care to pretend. I don't know why it excites me but it does. I guess the one role I like is "my womanly behind is exciting to see." Is that a role? Well, anyway it's my role, first to show off, then to invite it. I like to be looked at. When I feel like having it done, I know because I feel a growing nervousness first, for a few hours beforehand and arousal, too. I like to hear talk about it and stories. I like to see it, too, so we hook the video cam to the t.v. and arrange a mirror for me to watch it. I have also had it done by a friend who began talking about it one day and then I confided in her. I had no idea! It's erotic and that's why I don't like to pretend, and my friend is much better at it than him because she knows just when and how much.

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Registered: 11-28-2012
Tue, 03-05-2013 - 12:49pm

This is an interesting discussion. I recently discovered that my wife likes to have her bottom spanked....and I am slowly trying to see how into it she is. It is interesting sometimes to see how each little swat brings a cute contented whimper! I have got to learn how to make the most of this.

Pandy....Your story is exciting. Please tell more about the relationship with your friend. Would you mind describing one of these encounters?

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Registered: 05-23-2013
In reply to: MsJodee
Thu, 05-23-2013 - 4:59pm

I absolutly love it when my wife spanks me. The harder and longer the better!  We have a leather paddle and a riding crop for her to use on me during those episodes and she can never give me enough.  It is hard for her to REALLY get into it as much as I would like, but I love that sting!

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Registered: 05-30-2003
In reply to: MsJodee
Thu, 06-13-2013 - 12:36am

For me it kind of depends on why I'm being spanked if I enjoy it or not.  Sometimes my husband uses spanking to punish me for something stupid I might have done but there are times when I like it when he gets into the whole bondage and spanking thing!  It just adds something different to our sex life!

--Hugs!

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Registered: 12-13-2013
In reply to: miles81
Fri, 12-13-2013 - 11:38pm

When I was a kid I would get bare-butt spankings from my mother. I would have to drop my pants and my underwear and lie flat across the bed. I would get paddled with a big wooden bath brush. She would not give me a prescribed number of swats. I think she hit me until I cried uncontrollably or until her arm plain got tired. As much as I hated it then, by the time I was in college I would become "hot and bothered" just by thinking of those incidents. I seemed to derive pleasure from what was painful and scary at the time. Since college I have had several relationships with women, but none who were into either spanking or getting spanked. I am too nervous and shy to go to a dominatrix, and besides, getting spanked at my age now would give me certain physical sensations, but not with the fear, nervousness, embarrassed excitement over being half naked, the ritual of having to strip, etc. etc. What made those formative experiences so stimulating to my memories is the vulnerability and the range of emotions that I felt at the time, in addition to the painful (very!) stimulation of an erogenous zone. I can also recall the feeling of warmth and satisfaction I got when the worst of the intense pain was over and I was left with a warm, stinging burn, and it felt so good to put washcloths soaked in cold water on my sore bottom.