Is there anything....

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Is there anything....
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Wed, 08-23-2006 - 7:15pm

Hi guys, I posted this topic on one of my other boards, but I want to hear your thoughts as well.
Is there anything that your SO does to drive you completely crazy? Is there a certain way he/she looks at you or touches that makes you feel a little woozy?

I'll start out by answering my own questions. My husband always ends up seducing me without even trying (so it seems). The way he carries himself and handles me as a woman is enough to make me crazy. My husband always surprises me with affectionate caresses and kisses when I least expect it. One of my most fond memories of him doing this is the night we had just finished moving into our first home. I was so excited and exhausted because we had closed the deal and had been moving our stuff all day. While taking a short break, I was standing in the hallway near our bedroom and telling my guy what I thought would look nice as far as color schemes in our room. I guess you could say that I was blind-sided because out of nowhere, he comes over to me, puts his arms around me, pulls me extremely close (I could feel everything *smiles*) and gives me a really passionate kiss. I can honestly say that was the first time I had ever known the true meaning of the phrase "he makes me weak in the knees". The kiss was so passionate and deep that I felt a little unsteady on my feet and he had to actually support me from falling. I felt like a complete virgin and was breathing heavily while he touched and caressed me everywhere. I had butterflies in my stomach as he started to take off my clothes and then led me to the middle of our then empty bedroom. We got comfortable on the floor and ended up making love all night. This may sound odd, but that night I couldn't tell where I began or he ended...it's like we were one person--so connected. It's one of the best experiences I've ever had with him.

I think that's what makes me wild about my husband is that he is a master of surprise and he pleases me with what seems like such little effort on his end...it's like he just knows what I like--no, he knows what I LOVE. Other things he does that gives me goose bumps are coming up behind me while I'm washing dishes or cooking and giving me soft kisses on the neck or when I feel his breath on my neck while we're having sex in the spooning position...makes my whole body feel electric....*sighs* I could go on. Anyway, feel free to share some of your stories about what your SO other does to make you feel special and like you can't get enough of them.

Chakra




Edited 8/23/2006 7:42 pm ET by ayurchakra
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Thu, 08-24-2006 - 4:39am

When he comes up behind me and licks and kisses the back of my neck while he's pressed up against me and running his hands all over.

 

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Thu, 08-24-2006 - 12:47pm

***The part that drives me crazy is when he kisses me on the cheek and says "Just testing" and walks away. I have to chase him down and jump him. - Jazz***

I love that! It sounds like a really big turnon. My husband does something similar, and it gets me hot and upset at the same time. We'll both be fooling on the bed, and things will start to get really, REALLY intense, then all the sudden he pulls away and says "Oh, I have an errand to run, I'll be right back, babe." or something along those lines. Then he'll actually make a show of getting dressed, grabbing his keys and walking out of the door. However after he walks out and I'm sitting there pouting,--a few minutes will pass--then he'll come back inside and jump on me, lol.--Most of the time I'm surprised because I thought he really had somewhere to go. He's done this 2 times, and I hate it!--yet love it at the same time. He says he's doing that to get me back for all the "teasing" I did years ago before we were actually sexually active and all the errands I have to run at the last minute that leave him wanting. It sounds like your husband's version of teasing is way more diplomatic,*smiles*. Oh yea and in reference to the first half of your post---yes it IS exquisite to be felt up from behind.

Chakra

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Thu, 08-24-2006 - 3:49pm

Sounds hot, Caroline. Doggystyle position can be quite stimulating, it has that "I'm being taken" feeling to it. Quite a turnon, not the whole position itself is just very carnal .

Chakra