Threesome with Cousin or playing alone with her? Which is more Taboo?

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Threesome with Cousin or playing alone with her? Which is more Taboo?
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Sat, 06-09-2012 - 8:37pm

I post this in another post earliy today, and it got my juices flowing just writting about it. I was wonder, in your opinion, which is more taboo?

My husband is an Active Duty Soldier. When he returned from Afghanistan, I gave him a threesome as a surprise "Welcome Home" present. I wanted to do it, but I didn't want to just pick some random stranger. I knew that my cousin had had a few threesomes, and that she thought my husband was very attractive. She had told me several times that she thought he was hot and been a little flirtatous with him before. She never crossed the line, but she had mentioned how she would love to join us sometime. She always said it in a laughing manner, but I was sure she was serious. I am not sure if the threesome or the fact that it was with my cousin is more taboo?!?!

A few weeks before he came home, I asked her to come visit me. As we got ready for bed and After a few glasses of wine, the topic turned to sex. I asked her about her threesomes, and she was more than willing to share. She admited that she found both Mark and I attractive and that she would jump at the chance. She asked me if I had ever been with a women. I had not. She asked me if I would touch a women or be touched. I told her I wasn't sure. I told her that I was sure that I could never go down on a women. She told me that it was actually a lot of fun and that it was one of favorite things to do. We ended up finishing off two bottles of wine and more than half the third bottle. I told her I was horny and needed to go to bed. She asked me if she could sleep with me. I told her yes, in some way I wanted her to touch me, but I wasn't sure where this was going. I forgot to mention that at the time, I was 36 and she was 28. We weren't teenagers, but there was alot of teen like sexual tention there.

I went to bed with a TShirt and black panties on. She crawled into bed with just a pair of panties on and I was pretty sure something was going to happen. I had never been with a wome, but had to admit I was very attracted to my OWN COUSIN! She has strawberry blonde hair and is about 5'5 ,110 pounds. She is in shape and takes care of herself. Her breast were facing me and her nipples were hard, but I wasn't sure what to do. When we got into bed, she asked me how serious I was about wanting a threesome with my husband. She laid her hand on my stomach. I told her I really wanted it, she jokingly said "The threesome or now?" We both laughed, but knew she was right.

I was laying on my back and she was shirtless laying on her side and she was caressing my stomach with my shirt lifted. I told her it felt really good and closed my eyes. She ran her fingers down over my hips and traced her hands down my legs and up between my thighs. I slightly opened my legs hoping she would touch me more and closed my eyes as I let out a little moan. She rubbbed her hand over by panties and could easily feel the heat coming off my (*&^(&. I lifted my hips to meet her hand, and it was on. Her hand were inside my panties in a matter of seconds, and my clothes were off almost just as quick. She kissed my Neck and breast as she entered me with her fingers. I was a little surprised when she kissed me, but I liked it. She slid her panties down and I touched her. It was so soft and hot. We were both totally shaven and slippery wet. She tasted me first, and much to my surprise, I returned the favor. We played for a while until we both passed out. She woke me up with a little morning fun too. It was an amazing experience. I am glad I did it, but a little embarrassed that it was with my cousin.

Sorry this is soooo long, but I never told my husband about playing with her. When he came home, she spent the weekend with us and she was his personal toy. She pleased us both. My husband asked me taste her and to let him watch, so I did. I have played with her several other times, and he doesn't know about it. She has joined us on one other occassion then the weekend we spent together a threesome.

I don't think my husband would like it if he knew I was with her before he got home. My question to you, which is more Taboo, playing with my cousin alone, a threesome with her or the fact that my hubby doesn't know? (PS, I have never been with another man or women since we've been married.)

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Thanks for your post, I enjoyed reading it.  When we were in our 20s and both single, my cousin and I would kiss passionately and explore each others bodies every chance we got. She was a fabulous kisser, and we both enjoyed getting each other off. I have dated several girls who told me that they learned about sex in relationships with their cousins so I don't think you are different from a lot of us.

I look forward to hearing what others have to say on this subject.