THREESOME IN THE WORKS!

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Registered: 01-30-2012
THREESOME IN THE WORKS!
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Thu, 08-16-2012 - 3:10pm

My guy and I have been dating for a month and at my insistance, it's been purely sexual up until the last couple of days when deeper emotions finally started to come into play for both of us. Mind-blowing sex will do that, I guess. Just a few days after our first time together, I told him that I wanted another woman in bed with us. I definitely want to play with her and be played with, but mostly I want to watch my fabulous sex god do to her what he does to me. I'm getting so turned on thinking about it right now. So, this has been hovering for more than 3 weeks and we both know it's time. Here are my questions for anyone who has experience with this:

1. Finding that girl is much easier said than done. We are an attractive couple. He does frequent one particular strip club and suggested we might bring someone home from there and we have a couple of local swingers' clubs. But I was recently talking to another attractive couple who ironically, were trying to recruit me for THEIR threesome and they said they'd attempted both of those with no results. Any solid ideas on where to find this illusive creature, the perfect third?

2. I'm very excited about the sexual experience itself for everyone involved but I do have one major, knawing concern - what to do between sessions and when the sex is over? I don't want my guy cuddling with this random girl and I don't want the dynamic between her and either of us to cross the line from fling to anything else. How do couples handle this aspect of it?

I know you couples are out there so don't be shy. Please give me any advice you can offer. I want to broaden my sexual horizons with this man but I'd like to keep this budding relationship intact as well. Thanks!

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Registered: 05-04-2013
Fri, 10-18-2013 - 12:07am
Craig's List. Go to Personals-Casual Encounters and enter wm4w and meet first.
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Registered: 01-20-2013
Sun, 01-20-2013 - 4:36am
Finding a single woman can take time due to demand for them exceeds the supply. This means, if for example, you go to a swingers club then you will be competing against other couples who have the same idea. Strip clubs you have to be careful. If you are thinking about asking a stripper there is no guarantee that they will be interested and there is any exchange (e.g. cash or favors) for her joining you then it could be considered prostitution, which could put your job at risk especially if you are in an at-will employment state.Even going to bars can pose a risk to your safety because it is something that not everyone expects because the place is not targeting that type of activity. If you want to target a bar I would suggest a bar that targets lesbian women. However, by going to a lesbian bar you may find any woman you talk to may be interested in you but not being with your boyfriend. Moving on, you mention a couple approached you for a threesome. You might want to consider a qid-pro-quo arrangement. Meaning, you agree to join them for a threesome provided the female half of the couple joins the two of you. Alternatively you could suggest a foursome. The drawback to the former is there is no guarantee of they will go through with the agreement. The final option you have is trying the internet. It can you give access to a wealth of potential candidates but there are a lot of timewasters too.You will have to balance the cost and time against your desire to have a fmf. If I were to make a recommendation I would suggest contacting the couple again about their proposal. Discuss if they would be willing to share the female half with you in exchange for joining them or a foursome. Should that not be something you desire then I would suggest consider using the online sites.
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Registered: 01-19-2011
Tue, 09-18-2012 - 5:56am

My husband and I are in a poly relationship that started as a purely sexual relationship but evolved after several years.  Neither my husband and I are bisexual and ours is a mfm or mmf.  My sex drive is very strong and it's worked well for us. 

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 08-17-2012 - 9:32am

I have been trying to plan a threeway with the wife for several months. I want a MMF. We  have talked about it, she has some interests in a MMF, but she is not actively trying to make it happen. She does have an idea that I am trying to make it happen.  I am taking this slow and easy I want to see her with another man. The man will be of her choosing. Over this summer she has become more flirtatious when we go out., smile more at men, say hello to men she does not know. She has been dressing a bit more sexier. I ask her about other men she see's when we are out. Does she find them attractive, what do you think of him? If this ever happens, it will not be a pick up at a bar or club. It will be someone of her choosing, then she wants to get to know him, as in feeling comfortable, his personality's if he is up to what she likes, she wants him to have a STD/HIV test.  Condoms will still be used, but you have to be careful. 

 

I invasion us at a motel. We have met at a local bar for a few drinks to relax. I excuse myself for a few moments from the room. That is their cue to begin. When I return I find them messing around on the couch, his hand is up her dress and he is kissing her breast. I watch for a moment, I then sit down on the other side of her. We both begin to kiss and lick her breast, seducing her.

This is about her pleasure, not tow guys having their way with her, but her having her way with to guys who want to give her as much pleasure as possible.

 

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