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Wed, 04-26-2006 - 12:04am

So after three days of arguing, which involved him asking questions about why I had posted the story, only for him to blow his top again when he found out there was another one on there, I smoothed things over when he calmed down. We talked about what we wanted from the relationship, and I told him that he should think about all the things that make him unhappy and cause him to blow his top, and then we would sit down and work out a compromise. As he found out, the things we want from the relationship are the same, and I made him see that while he thinks that I don't understand him at times, he also doesn't understand me at times.

I got it through to him that just because I write things on here, it doesn't reflect on how I feel about our relationship, and that I'm not thinking of (or comparing) past experiences with other men. I told him that I have a past, and even though he doesn't want to think about it, it's my past, not his, and that I'm not going to deny it if people ask me about it.

I went over to see him on the Saturday before I came away, and the moment he saw me he was all smiles - even though he'd been angry with me, he'd missed me terribly. By the time he saw me again he was just so happy to see me that all his anger dissolved. At that stage he still hadn't thought about the things that we need to compromise on, and that will have to be sorted out when I get back. But after spending a couple of hours just talking and reconnecting (and him kissing my neck and turning me on) we had hot makeup sex, which was the best we'd had in a while.

After that we had Indian for dinner, and cozied up on the couch together with the cat (who missed him terribly), before going to bed and having more sex (even tried a hot new position!). I dropped him off at home when I went to work the next afternoon, and haven't seen him because I've been away, but have been chatting on the net today. Unfortunately there's been torrential rain back home, and there is flooding through a number of towns on the way, so I might have a bit of trouble getting home for work tomorrow. Even more annoying is that it's still raining down that way, so things aren't improving!

 


 


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Registered: 03-11-2006
In reply to: xploziv1
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 7:31am

Jan, I was only half joking about you teaching us. Now I've gone and highjacked your thread. Oooops sorry.


I really can not believe that you are only 23. You have a wisdom way beyond your years. Now, let's go back to you, shall we?

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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: xploziv1
Fri, 04-28-2006 - 10:55pm
Lol, the thread was dead and buried anyway. I've always been too old for my age - I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

 


 


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Registered: 03-11-2006
In reply to: xploziv1
Sat, 04-29-2006 - 8:04am

Well, I've was too old for my age as a kid and somewhere along the way must have decided to make up for it b/c I am so immature now. My 7 year old tells me to grow up. I still take care of all of my responsibilities but love to have fun and laugh. I get mistaken for 20 instead of 31 and I think it's my attitide, guess both of us could work on acting our age?


So, how are you guys doing now? Did you finally discuss it all, after all of the hot makeup sex?

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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: xploziv1
Sun, 04-30-2006 - 9:02am
Things are really good. Great hot sex continues, but we still haven't sat down and talked about things properly. I think on his end he's forgotten about it. It will get done though!

 


 


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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: xploziv1
Sun, 04-30-2006 - 10:33am
That's "guy think" for you — we're having hot sex, so things must be okay. Sometimes it helps to hit us over the head with a blunt object. ;-)
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Registered: 03-11-2006
In reply to: xploziv1
Sun, 04-30-2006 - 3:57pm

Now Steve, violence is never the answer and will only get her into more trouble here. Sexy past and aggressive? He may not go for it.

 

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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: xploziv1
Mon, 05-01-2006 - 2:23am
Lol, you and boston are too funny.

 


 


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Registered: 03-11-2006
In reply to: xploziv1
Mon, 05-01-2006 - 6:56am
LOL, yeah, we kinda feed off each other.

 

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