Vaginal-penile sex and orgasm

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Vaginal-penile sex and orgasm
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Mon, 01-20-2014 - 12:58am

If similar topic has been discussed before I apologize.  I tried search function but it didn't work.

How many women here, if you don't mind answering the questions, can reach orgasm(s) from just vaginal-penile sex?  How fast?  And how many times?

My partner almost never reach orgasm from oral sex.  It feels very good for her, I can tell, but never be able to get her off.  She prefers vaginal-penile sex much more.  I thought that was special.

She can orgasm like 2-3 minutes after penetration.  But then it'll be much harder to get the 2nd one.  After that she's done.  It's extremely rare for her to get a 3rd one--we've been together for more than 15 years, she had no more than 5 times getting the 3rd one.  And never beyond 3rd.  That's why when I hear some say she can orgasm like 10 times in a row, I find it hard to believe.  Oh yes, she's the only woman I've ever been with.

Many say women need longer time; the longer the better.  She does't want longer--10-15 min top.

Finally, only the missionary style can get her off.  Back-entry she said it hurts.

Just wondering whether there are others similar to her...

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Wed, 01-29-2014 - 2:25pm

I'm sure there are some women that are like her. Everyone is different. I can sometimes orgasm from penetration alone, sometimes from oral and sometimes not. All depends on the mood.

If it's good for her and you that's all that matters. :)



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Thu, 01-30-2014 - 12:40am
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Thu, 02-13-2014 - 10:38am
I sometimes have to teach a new love how to please me and that is for him not to orgasm at all. That way he can last and last and do it several times throughout the day. If he does that, I can orgasm 3-6 times every time (when he "goes hard and fast" and doesn't orgasm). And we can do that every day for a month or even longer. You don't believe me? You need a special license? Speciali training? Tantra? No. You only need a loving willing patient partner, no matter how old, who wants to thrilled and be thrilled. I like his hands to be free to do as they please with my body as he maneuvers and works into me; and my own are free to, I play with his chest (euphemism) and other delights. We look into the eyes of the other. Usually he stands on one side of the bed and I'm on the bed on my side and my beautiful parts are somewhat hanging over the side to give him access. If I am able to do this many each time, count them for yourself. And believe me, this is possible for everyone, not just us; except you must love one another and not be angry, hostile, and withholding. You mustn't be a "punisher." (And that, I've found, is difficult for really sad people to give up.)
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Sat, 02-22-2014 - 3:33pm
Orgasm 3-6 times each session for a month?!! There's no way! First, not sure if my partner can do that. At least she told me after one session (usually 1-2 orgasms), the next day the desire isn't that high anymore. And so am I. Every day for a month?! Second, you mean your male partner does not orgasm at all? For a whole month? How can he hold that long? If I see my partner orgasm, 70% I'll orgasm too. Just can't hold it. I'll consider myself a loving partner, and I'm more than willing to do whatever to please her. But she rarely orgasm by me stimulating her clitoris, and she never orgasm by oral sex. She loves it, but never being able to orgasm. I still believe you are way different from my partner, and it's something we can't achieve.
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Sun, 02-23-2014 - 12:52pm
Actually, my partner doesn't like to talk about sex or any sex-related topics at all. Just last night when I asked her about her orgasm experience, she made it clear that it doesn't really interest her. When she masturbates she never goes beyond once, and our sex is the same--one orgasm for her is enough. When I lasted longer to make her cum the second time that was pretty much just for me--she doesn't really fancy more than once. I knew she used to said one orgasm is good enough, but I never knew she doesn't fancy more. In fact, we've had some conflicts in the past when I asked her whether there was anything I could do to please her more. It's a bit frustrating... ok, actually quite frustrating. But I'm getting used to it.
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Mon, 02-24-2014 - 6:09pm

I love having multiple orgasms, but would never expect my partner to hold off for me.  Usually, I have one before him, one with him during intercourse, and sometimes one afterwards, with a toy or his hand.  

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Mon, 02-24-2014 - 8:54pm
That's nice. I think men probably still have to last long enough, can't be like 2 thrusts and is done...
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Tue, 02-25-2014 - 6:48am

Yes you're right.  It definitely takes more than 2 or three thrusts.  Sometimes it takes longer than other times, but usually requires a little stimulation along with intercourse.  

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Tue, 02-25-2014 - 10:12am
Tried stimulating her while having sex, she didn't really like it. Maybe try another position in the future...
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Tue, 02-25-2014 - 12:50pm
Look up the "deck chair" position. It's one of my favourites as my hubby's body hits all the right spots without him having to do any extra stimulation.

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