Vanilla

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Vanilla
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Thu, 05-11-2006 - 5:47pm
Does vanilla = boring for you>


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Registered: 05-19-2006
In reply to: cl_littlemascara
Sun, 05-21-2006 - 11:30pm
To me, yes vanilla is very boring. I think everyone will have a differnt idea of what vanilla is. To me, it is plain sex, and that inculdes oral and anal. I don't see either of those two things as kinky or anywhere above what average sex is. To me vanilla is along the lines of love making. That is the last thing I want to do, as to me sex and love are not the same thing.
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Registered: 03-20-2006
In reply to: cl_littlemascara
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 2:23pm
I'll post then go back and read everyone else's. I'm so far from vanilla. Although I'm not hardcore either. Give me some pain while we're doing some standard missionary position and I'm a happy camper! Is vanilla boring? No, but I know I can't do vanilla for too long before I start needed it as much if not more then breathing! What IS vanilla to me? My first marriage. LOL No control, no pain, no VOICE that there is now. And I like this much better!
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Registered: 10-14-2003
In reply to: cl_littlemascara
Mon, 05-22-2006 - 6:20pm

I view vanilla as only having the one partner, always missionary, always vaginal, no oral.

Boring? Not as a change of pace. I don't want to always be a wild child.


"In Civilization and Its Discontents, Freud argued that civilization is founded on the repression of instincts. It now seems clear that one of those instincts leads us away from monogamy. Whether we choose to follow, on the other hand, is up to us."
-Dr. David P. Barash and Dr. Judith Eve Lipton,
"The Myth of Monogamy"

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