Virginal Questions!

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Virginal Questions!
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Tue, 08-15-2006 - 8:39pm


How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Where did it happen?

What was it like?

Does it make you hot thinking about it?

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 8:56pm

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

17. January 1, 1988.

Where did it happen?

Hmmm.... well, I actually bled from digital penetration a few weeks before (in my living room), but the first penile penetration happened in my bedroom, on a green sleeping bag on my bed.

What was it like?

Well... uncomfortable. Interesting thing is that I'd always heard about how uncomfortable it is the first time, and yeah, it was pretty uncomfortable. We stayed together for the better part of a year and I never really enjoyed sex all that much because it hurt. After I'd had a few more lovers over the years, I came to really *get* that he was HUGE!! No wonder it hurt!! Very bad starter model!!

Does it make you hot thinking about it?

No. My oldest child is about to turn 17, so it's actually a not-fun thought. I also think about other things about that time, and all in all, I was not in a good spot. It's not like I wish I'd waited- I just wish I hadn't had the opportunity. Years later, when I lived 2000 miles away from him and was married with two children, he and I started a long distance affair. I visited my home town and had a physical affair with him. I had been in love with him for years. My H at the time found out and was livid... but I still kept in contact with him. I left that H for another man, and my first was very angry with me. He had thought I should want him to move in with me... but I was less and less impressed with him. He is a pushy person, and I could never say no to him... finally I grew a spine and decided I didn't want to have that kind of relationship with him. I stood up to him a couple times, and he started talking to me less... then I got married and had another baby (who turns 9 in a few days!). He called me when she was two weeks old and just laid into me, saying all sorts of mean things. I was hormonal and begged him to stop- why do this?? How would this make me want to be with him ever again in any way whatsoever??? I hung up on him. We haven't spoken since.

I've heard updates from mutual friends- as far as I know, he still lives with his parents and now has a very bad weight problem. :-( I feel so bad for him. He was pushy and inconsiderate, but he was also in his 20s and really did have a heart of gold. I hope he grew up and I hope that he gets his weight problem under cotnrol. :-(

I do remember how mysterious and charismatic he was... and he had very nice eyes. I was sure I would grow up and have his babies. I had lotsa babies, but not his. Thank goodness!!


"Confusing monogamy with morality has done more to destroy the conscience of the human race than any other error."
-George Bernard Shaw

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 9:40pm
How old were you when you lost your virginity? 18

Where did it happen? My ex's dorm room


What was it like? You tell me what it would be like when he only lasted about 30 seconds?!


Does it make you hot thinking about it? LOL, is this a joke?!


 


 


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Registered: 05-03-2006
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 10:02pm
HAHA no, its not a joke. Ilost mine when I wa 18, and it makes me hot pretty much every time I think about. It was such a sweet, innocent experience! I loved it, and although it hurt, I enjoyed it thoroghly. =D
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Registered: 10-16-2005
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 1:41am

How old were you when you lost your virginity? 19

Where did it happen? in my bedroom with a lovely new dildo...

What was it like? intriguing because has anyone ever lost their virginity to a sex toy?

Does it make you hot thinking about it? not really...it was just rubber lol

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 7:52am
How old were you when you lost your virginity? too young, I was 14

Where did it happen?



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Registered: 04-11-2006
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 8:09am

When? when I was 16
Where? The house that my now ex husband lived in at the time

It wasnt all that fun, I didnt realize it at the time but he didnt know how to emotionally stimulate me enough to really enjoy it.

It doesnt remotely turn me on to think about it becasue I know if had waited I might not have made the mistake of getting married so young. I think since I had sex with him I thought that he was going to love me forever and I was to young to get in to that type of relationship.... My other regret is that I gave up my one true love when I met this guy. My Love was in NY where he lived ( i live in ohio) we had ended the realationship when our vacation was over and we both had to go to our homes but we kept in contact for a very long time...... Until my husband forbid me to talk to the guy... But when he and i talked you could tell that there was something there.

Now my current SO wants me to get married and I told him that I have this one loose end that I have to tie up first, since I cant go in to another commitment wonder what might have been. I havent seen the guy in 7 years havent talked to him in about 5.5 years, I just want to hear him tell me that hes found the love of his life and that hes happy. God forbid that hes single still... I might have an issue on my hands LOL

Oh well....

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Registered: 08-08-2006
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 9:20am

How old were you when you lost your virginity? 16

Where did it happen? by the lake on a blanket

What was it like? I remember it being quite painful at first and then when I started getting into it, it was over.

Does it make you hot thinking about it? not really

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 9:31am
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
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Registered: 06-23-2006
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 10:19am
How old were you when you lost your virginity? 16

Where did it happen? His bedroom.


What was it like? Not good.


Does it make you hot thinking about it? Nope.

 

 

 

 

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Registered: 05-03-2006
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 12:06pm
OMG Penguinite! you are such a goober!
yeah I don't think I'd get hot thinking about rubber either ;)

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