Want to Try Anal Sex..

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Registered: 10-16-2005
Want to Try Anal Sex..
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Wed, 06-07-2006 - 4:34am
I've attempted anal sex before...well attempted isn't a word...more like FORCED. (My ex anally raped me numerous times, no matter how many times I said no...wonder why he's an ex..) And I hated it because it hurt so bad and I tore a couple of times.... well now I've met a sweet guy who wants to try it and so do I (consented). So I guess my question is.. how can i make sure it's pleasurable for me and for him? What do I need to do to make sure I don't experience horrible pain and such? Also..my ex was a dismal 5 inches whereas the new guy is 9!!...how can I adjust to a larger girth in my bum?
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Registered: 07-16-2004
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 6:23am
lol lol, I love the fact you can laugh at the situation.
Do you reach ur anus from the front or rear?? Do you own any toys that could be used??
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 7:45am
Sorry it ended that way...here's hoping you find a wonderful new man. :)


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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 6:40pm

Welcome to the board, littlebird.

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 6:42pm

Welcome, Amy.

 

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Registered: 06-08-2006
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 6:56am
Hya. I find the nicest way to anally masturbate is to , first of all have plenty of time and privacy to yourself. I like to lie on my side on the bed in a cuddling position with a pillow between my knees. This seems to open you up a bit. I am lucky I can reach everywhere with my fingers!! If you can`t reach I would suggest using something 1 finger size to start with with, as I said, and with loads of lube. Don`t rush anything. Just put the tip of your finger in and stop, when you relax a bit more, go in a bit more. Keep going, taking as long as you want. I found once I could get whatever I was using all the way in, I liked to start moving in and out, always gentle and slow. Combine it with clitoral sitmulation, which you would probably do with your partner. It is worth it. You don`t tense up so much when something ,or your partner goes in then. But you have got to be gentle, and take your time.(same when you are actually having anal sex). I do like to use gloves and condoms. I like to be clean. Hope that helps

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