Watching me masturbate

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Registered: 03-31-2008
Watching me masturbate
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Sun, 06-02-2013 - 6:28pm

I'm a mid-40's male and I have always had a thing for masturbating while being watched by a female. Does anyone else share this pleasure?  

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Registered: 05-21-2013
Mon, 06-03-2013 - 1:00pm
I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that share your turn on. I think there are even entire websites dedicated to having someone watch while you masturbate. Is a particular woman you want to watch you or just women in general? I love having my husband watch me...but not so sure about strangers. That's just me though :)
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Registered: 05-21-2013
Mon, 06-03-2013 - 1:00pm
I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that share your turn on. I think there are even entire websites dedicated to having someone watch while you masturbate. Is a particular woman you want to watch you or just women in general? I love having my husband watch me...but not so sure about strangers. That's just me though :)
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Registered: 11-04-2012
Mon, 06-03-2013 - 7:05pm

Speaking from a female perspective, I like the idea of watching my man masturbate.  

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Registered: 03-31-2008
Tue, 06-04-2013 - 8:39pm
Just women in general. My wife is not into it, she's too.conservative. Strangers would be ok with me. Is that weird...? It would be a turn on for me.
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Registered: 06-05-2013
Wed, 06-05-2013 - 11:37am

I would love to see my man with a 'fleshlight' but he prefers the real thing. 

More sex please, I'm British!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2008
Wed, 06-05-2013 - 7:10pm
I've never used a fleshlight... But would try it. I just prefer stroking with my hand and I'm always successful. I'd do a fleshlight with someone watching.
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Registered: 04-14-2013
Sun, 06-09-2013 - 8:21am

I really enjoy having my friend watch...it has a lot to do with trust for me.  I am not sure I would let a guy I did not know watch me.Innocent

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Registered: 11-03-2001
Sun, 06-09-2013 - 11:01am

I'm 43 years old and this has to be my most popular fantasy.   While masturbating with a toy or just my hands makes no difference.  I think about it frequently.  My opinion is that there's nothing wrong with you and think its a normal sort of fantasy.  The big question is how you pursue this to make it reality, assuming that's your objective.  Obviously doing it intentionally to be caught in the act could place you quickly into that weird category and randomly soliciting strangers has that potential as well.  I think the best approach on the subject is to tell an adult female you know and trust about it.   Communicating this, and moreover being comfortable about sharing this with someone you trust moves it out of that weird category.   This is not some crazy taboo sex act and it's perfectly safe when the premise of discussion is no touch just watch.  Having said that, you may be surprised that she would be willing to watch or may have a girlfriend that could accomodate such a viewing.  There's a good chance one of them may even share the same fantasy.  The bottom line is the only way to stay away from the "weird" category is communication.

I have a fantastic girlfriend and would never let something like this ruin our trust so I've chosen to tell her about this fantasy with the hopes that she may be able to ask one of her girlfriends to watch me some day to fulfill this desire.

Good things come to those who communicate :).

Happy pleasures.

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Registered: 12-13-2010
Sun, 06-23-2013 - 10:58am

 i do in front of my wife. it turns her on.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Fri, 07-12-2013 - 10:02am
I can get my wife to start masturbating but she never likes to finish. She wants me to do it. It drives me crazy when she finishes.

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