Watching me masturbate

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Registered: 03-31-2008
Watching me masturbate
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Sun, 06-02-2013 - 6:28pm

I'm a mid-40's male and I have always had a thing for masturbating while being watched by a female. Does anyone else share this pleasure?  

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Registered: 11-04-2012
Sat, 07-13-2013 - 12:08am

Some of us are very shy to let someone watch us masturbate.  I had to practice in front of a mirror for weeks before I could let my hubby watch me.  And even then, the first time was in the dark, where he could just hear me.

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Registered: 08-13-2013
Tue, 08-13-2013 - 11:56am

Next to you: Yes! I love masturbating for women! It is so erotic especially when the women chat with you while stroking....awww!  And for any of you women who enjoy watching men masturbate I would very much enjoy having you engage in a little cam2cam fun. Contact me and I'll tell you how you can watch! Thank you!!!

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Registered: 08-13-2013
Tue, 08-13-2013 - 12:01pm
PS: you can find me here: http://justcams.tv/#u6600640
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Registered: 02-25-2010
Wed, 08-28-2013 - 2:00pm

My wife and I both like watching each other masturbate and cum as part of our sex life.

Oldkinky
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Registered: 05-09-2004
Mon, 09-16-2013 - 8:51pm

Years ago, on a weekend away with my husband and a few of his best friends, I caught one of his friends enjoying a "wardrobe malfunction" of mine.  I was turned on by it, and mentioned it to my husband.  The conversation went on to include how I would love for the friend to watch me masturbate or to watch us having sex.  My husband was also turned on by the idea.

Later that day, we were watching television and I sat on the sofa lengthwise opposite the friend in my nightie.  We didn't exchange a word, but he watched and soon began stroking himself. 

I always thought that a 3some with him and my husband would happen, but that never did.

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Registered: 07-10-2001
Mon, 10-07-2013 - 5:15pm

My first wife wanted nothing to do with me (or her) masturbating ... turns out she had been sexually abused by her father and never told me until our divorce.

My current wife is very comfortable with sex. We have had all kinds of masturbation sessions...watching...assisting...outdoors, in the car...etc.

Her favorite is her hold her vibtrator on her clit, while I stroke a dildo in her vagina and stoke a finger in her anus.

I have lots of favorites....

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Registered: 05-06-2010
Tue, 12-31-2013 - 5:49am

My wife loves me to masturbate - not really so she can watch, but because she seems to like to be close to the action. So don't just see it as a visual thing.

If she's not in the mood but I am, she often likes to cuddle me while I play with myself, and if I ask her to sit on my face it's usually only if I agree to wank at the same time.

We also have a thing that we do where she sits with her back to the headboard while I sit in front and she kisses my neck, shoulders, ears, etc, while I masturbate. It's one of the loveliest, most intimate and beautiful things we do together.

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Registered: 02-08-2014
Thu, 02-13-2014 - 10:47am
I am very open and ask them to masturbate throughout the day, especially if there's so much privacy we can go without clothes or if we are in the woods where there are none to see us. I do the same. I masturbate just to keep myself "tuned up" and ready for action. We masturbate beside each other watching t.v. or even just talking. I masturbate walked or touch myself while watching him pee. You get the idea. I don't like my life to be restricted by anyone else's idea of what should be suppressed. Usually the repressive-censoring-controlling types are so ignorant about how to live well. Living well is simple living, without complications and pretenses. I find men who can talk about their interior life with me and then we can share ourselves--sometimes by masturbating!
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Registered: 05-09-2004
Tue, 02-18-2014 - 10:28am
Like you, I had to learn to be open with my sexuality. My husband and I were married for years and had a child together before I practiced in the mirror and videotaped myself. It was only after some more time that I was able to masturbate for him in full daylight. My sexuality has developed since then. I have masturbated for other men in person, and have been a bit of an exhibitionist on my cam with both friends and strangers watching at times.
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Registered: 01-01-2014
Tue, 03-11-2014 - 8:13pm

This is a lot of fun.

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