Watching your Man with Another Woman

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Watching your Man with Another Woman
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Tue, 05-11-2010 - 1:54am
I have a favorite, recurring fantasy about watching my husband having sex with other women. Sometimes, in the fantasy I join in and we have a threesome. But I find that honestly my favorite part is just watching. It goes something like this. We are in a room, maybe our bedroom or maybe a hotel room or some other place. I am siting on the couch a few feet away while they start going at it I have a skirt or dress and mastrabate as I watch. I find this immensely exciting. Sometimes it is a woman we actually know, or maybe just someone we've seen like some pretty waitress, or a stranger.I have shared the fantasy with him during lovemaking and not surprisingly he likes it too. But later I feel jealous just having us fantasize. I want to. I want to know, how common is this, and have any of you realized the fantasy? Would you?

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Registered: 04-21-2006
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 3:06am
I'm with you. I have this fantasy all the time. We talk about it when we are making love. I am hoping we can even make it a reality. I talk about women we know, that we might want to be with. It just drives him wild.
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Tue, 05-11-2010 - 11:29am

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Registered: 09-02-2006
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 10:11pm

I have had this same fantasy with previous boyfreinds and my current one as well.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 8:18am
Hi tammy. Why does this fantasy



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Registered: 09-27-2005
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 8:50am

Tammy, do you know why you have this jealousy with the fantasy? I think that is to be expected. Even if you trust him 100% there is still possibility that something else may come up with the other female.


What part of it makes you jealous?


What you two could do is slowly test the waters.


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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 05-12-2010 - 10:28am

"I picture another woman fully enjoying sex without any inhibitions because in real life I can sometimes get hung up on them."

That's a really good point to bring up. I think this is true for a lot of women.

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Registered: 08-12-2008
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 10:54am

Hi Tammyj2010 and welcome to the board.

You pose an interesting question.

My hubby and I have this fantasy and it will always be a fantasy. When we fantasize about this together, we do not talk about women that he has crushed on when he was younger. There is one woman in particular that is a sore spot for me. ONLY b/c I was told if my hubby was not with me; those two would have been together. I view(ed) her as a real threat. She is the only person that can make me go all sane to jealous in 2 seconds flat.

Not many men in my day to day life get me going or hold my interest like my hubby does.

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 11:06am

Have you thought about going to a strip club and buying your hubbie a lap dance or two?

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Registered: 05-17-2010
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 11:16am

That is totally my #1 fantasy right now! And it goes the same way, sometimes it is a 3some, sometimes it is just him and the other woman. For now, with the fact we have young children, I feel there is just too much at risk to actually act on things. Now that isn't to say that if magically the sex stars aligned and the opportunity perfectly presented itself that I wouldn't totally grab it. But for now we keep it a fantasy.

One of my favorite things to do when I am feeling really naughty is when we are out shopping point out girls I think he might find attractive. Or have him point them out to me. It is a stranger, so I don't worry about jealousy(the same way I would if it was a coworker or whatever) and it lets us both see what the person looks like. It feels naughty to be talking about different things when we are so close to the person. Plus, it makes shopping a lot more fun! 01

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Registered: 03-07-2008
Wed, 06-09-2010 - 10:06pm

Tammy,


This is my SO fav fantasy.

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