water sports

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Registered: 02-23-2006
water sports
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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 9:16am
I am new here & I am having my first affair after 20 years of marriage. My husband has had countless affairs & is aware of mine. The reason I am posting is that I have lately been the recipient of "water sports" both in my face, but of late even swallowing the same. I find this very,very erotic. I even cut my hair super short due to the "Moisture Problem" shall we say. Is this just Too Weird? Should I see a therapist? Does anyone else like this? Help!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: bobiejean
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 9:52am
Water sports aren't for everyone (they're not for me, for example), but as fetishes go it's not exactly unheard of either. Urine is actually pretty sterile (unlike scat play), and if you find it erotic there shouldn't be any reason to not practice it. I would no more consider water sports a reason to see a therapist than any other fetish.
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Registered: 05-24-2003
In reply to: bobiejean
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 3:22pm

"Is this just Too Weird? Should I see a therapist? Does anyone else like this? "


Nah.

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Registered: 01-22-2005
In reply to: bobiejean
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 12:10am
I have a very secret fantasy about this...I don't think I will ever play on it or even mention it to my guys, but I often fantasize about being at the river on a hot summer day in a remote area, don't want any splash so they would have to stand close and hold it right next to my skin...one guy in front over my midsection and one guy behind over my butt, let it all run down me, then swim to wash off....get out and have wild sex on the sand.
Don't know where this comes from but it is there and I often bring myself to an "O" thinking of it.
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Registered: 08-12-2005
In reply to: bobiejean
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 6:47am
I don't think its weird. I personally am not into it, but to each their own. If its what you enjoy...then I say go for it.
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Registered: 02-23-2006
In reply to: bobiejean
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 7:19am
Thanks to all for their kind responses. I am meeting my lover today & will be enjoying mt special liquid refreshment! Thanks again!
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Registered: 01-16-2005
In reply to: bobiejean
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 7:50am

If anyone tells you that you need to see a therapist because you like watersports then they are absolutely wrong. From what you describe I do not see anything abnormal or wrong. Instead I see someone who enjoys something different that the most of us but isn't that what America is all about, being who you want to be?

Now on a seperate note, the affair. As long as you are cool about it and your SO does not seem all that bothered then who is it hurting? In my honest opinion you are as normal (probably more than most) as anyone else.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2006
In reply to: bobiejean
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 7:51am
Spent last night with my lover man. I am pleased to report that I had lots of my favorite liquid with no adverse effects physical or mental. In fact it was delicious & SO EXCITING!
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: bobiejean
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 12:48pm

Welcome to the board, Bobiejean.

 

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Registered: 12-07-2004
In reply to: bobiejean
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 1:59pm
I don't see anything wrong with it. In fact, I think it's really hot. I've incorporated watersports into masturbation, but never with a partner. I wish my BF were into this. I've never brought it up with him, but something tells me he wouldn't really be into it. The important thing is that you both enjoy it which it seems you do!
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Registered: 02-23-2006
In reply to: bobiejean
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 5:26pm
My husband has many affairs while I spent the first 7 years pregnant (including two sets of twins) the kids are now almost twenty to 14. I had not had sex with anyone except my husband but on our twenty wedding anniversary will took a trip to St Barts in the French West Indies. We met another couple their (African/Americans, I'm Irish & husband is Italian) who we really clicked with & ended up swapping mates. He is/was a incredible lover (much better than my husband) & imagine my surprise when I received a call from him telling me he was in town & asked me to lunch. We had sex that day. He comes to San Francisco twice a month & we spend lots of time together as my husband is often out of town on business & we have a live in housekeeper that is like a second mom to my teenagers that are not in private school. I did not tell my husband for two months but when I did he not only approved but encouraged me. My lover's wife also approves. While I love my husband deeply & would never disrupt our home my lover is incredible. Just typing this is making me hot. Thanks!

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