what do you do when...

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Registered: 09-16-2003
what do you do when...
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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 12:39pm
your partner just isn't responsive to your needs, or doesn't even notice(or ignores, most likely)


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Registered: 12-10-2005
Sun, 07-09-2006 - 10:34pm
Thank god it hasn't happened in my current relationship...but, i divorced my x for that reason----and others.
I think if you are trying to give off non-verbal queues and they are ignored, then you try to talk it out. but honestly, who wants to be with someone that
ignores you on that level and thinks of his/her own pleasure first?
Isn't it the best turn on to turn on your lover? If someone misses that, they are not attuned to you, and the resultant heartache just isn't worth it. I'd be willing to bet that a situation like that is a symptom of other, larger, problems in the relationship in general.,
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 07-09-2006 - 11:44pm

Welcome to the board, JAG.

 

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 2:49pm

Hi justaguy, welcome.

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 2:57pm
My wife has just ventured into the 4th decade and I am praying to everything that is unholy that this "awakening" hits her, takes over her, and that I happen to be the object of every new and carnal desire!
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Registered: 12-19-2002
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:12pm

For your sake, I hope so too, Talbed!

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Mon, 07-10-2006 - 3:17pm

yea, I am counting on that every other decade thing...her 20's...wow! Her 40's...well this time I am there for the ride! LOL!

you know me though...creating 1,000 pounds of hope from a 1 ounce fact. LOL

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