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| Mon, 04-03-2006 - 4:01pm |
The more I think of this the more I think it was totally rude...when we all went out for our overnighter and actually the last few times we have got together for our trios, our friend has called another friend (a woman) to just chit chat. WE are not ever so bored that we have to talk to someone else while we are together. What do you make of this?
The woman has been a friend of his for quite some time, she is his type but not in looks. SHe is rather large and unattractive. He calls her the buffalo woman. I am not really jealous, but I think that this is rude behavior and it puzzles me. I am going to tell him if he can't be away from his other friends then maybe he should be elsewhere. When we plan for time together it should be for us (ME) not for others. I really would think the same way if he were calling a man. I am a little miffed after thinking about this....thanks for any opinions.
The woman has been a friend of his for quite some time, she is his type but not in looks. SHe is rather large and unattractive. He calls her the buffalo woman. I am not really jealous, but I think that this is rude behavior and it puzzles me. I am going to tell him if he can't be away from his other friends then maybe he should be elsewhere. When we plan for time together it should be for us (ME) not for others. I really would think the same way if he were calling a man. I am a little miffed after thinking about this....thanks for any opinions.

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I understand how you feel, and I'd feel the same
Frankly, I wouldn't want to be with a guy who called another woman "buffalo woman."
I think it is rude.
I know that if I had planned on spending time with DW and she is making phone calls during our alone time I would be upset about it.
I am angry at him, but don't know if I want to say anything at this time. I just don't know what to do. I have never been angry with him before, so I guess this calling other people on OUR time behavior is really bothering me.
Let me get this straight before I tell you what I think of it (after all...you are soliciting opinions) --
You are offended because your threesome partner (with whom you have no committment to/from other than regular sex) calls a friend of his, who meets some of his emotional and social needs, while he is playing 3rd wheel with you and your DH? You're married to someone, and you three get together for sex and sometimes it's just you two sans husband -- but you don't want him to call a friend?
Is that correct? Am I understanding the situation?
To me this really doesn't have much to do with "what we do" it has to do with etiquette.
Thanks
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