What is it about older men????

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Registered: 03-25-2003
What is it about older men????
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Wed, 06-21-2006 - 3:26pm
I am 27 and my husband is 30. We have a good marriage. I love him, am attracted to him, etc. But lately I am finding myself to be more and more attracted to older men 45+ year olds. What is the deal with this? A guy came into the club I work in last night that was 48 and I could not take my eyes off of him. He could not take his off of me, either, but good grief, lol. He stood in front of my desk, introduced himself and we started talking. I was soaking wet, heart was beating fast and ALL I could think was how badly I wanted to rip his clothes off and do him, lol. I'll probably never see him again, he lives in Chicago and is only here for a golf tournament. The looks were something else, though :)

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 4:50pm

When I was young, I had a thing for older men, apparently.

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 4:56pm
We're ...ummm....perfect! We've grown up...we're more confident...and some of us actually look better as we age. Oh, and we finally know what we're doing! Enjoy us!!! LOL
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:00pm

LOL, what an amazing answer :) I do enjoy older men... even if I am just looking, cybering and having phone sex for now :)

Maybe the confidence thing is the answer... I do find myself drawn to confident men.

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Registered: 11-17-2005
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:37pm
Nah - not perfect but you do have valid points TB. Older men to me are just hotter and I can't pin point just one specific reason. Confidence, maturity and knowing what they want - is just hot.

 

 

 

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Registered: 12-19-2002
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:39pm

This question is very subjective according to who's asking or answering it.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:40pm
I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks they are hot :) It's getting bad, though... an older man can't walk past me without me checking him out, lol.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:41pm
I agree that it is very subjective, Maggie :) I wanted somewhere to ask where I wouldn't be judged, though. Most of my friends are older than I am, but I didn't want to mention it to them... they'd probably say you're married, why are you looking, lol.
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Registered: 12-19-2002
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:45pm

My husband is 45, will be 46 this summer.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:49pm
I'm sure he is the hottest thing you've ever seen :) Y'all both sound (and you look, from your pic) very hot :) Early 40's to mid 50's seems to be what really does it for me right now.
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Wed, 06-21-2006 - 5:54pm
Don't worry - we're not the only ones!!LOL I check 'em out in the grocery, I check 'em out at the pool! They just seem to want my attention for some odd reason!!!!LOL

 

 

 

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