what should I wear?

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what should I wear?
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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 4:57pm
I am going out tonight for drinks with my pal, and we are going to meet a guy I met on myspace.


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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 5:02pm

Does DH know you're meeting this guy?

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 5:07pm
I haven't told DH....yet....I have this feeling I am going to get stood up!


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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 5:14pm

Well I hope you don't, but at least you're going with your friend, so you can still have fun.


I recently had this same, sorta, question float thru my empty head when the boys said they wanted to take me to a gay bar.

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 5:44pm
I will nola, thanks!


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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 5:51pm

I don't know why that's a fear.

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 6:28pm
Nola, do you feel uncomfortable if a man and woman make out in front of you? Or maybe you just feel off b/c this is a new thing for you. I don't think there is anything wrong with you feeling this way and think it's great you can admit it. What if you saw 2 women kissing?
Also, I used to go to gay bars with gay friends and am very girly. I may upset some people here. But once i got cornered in the ladies room by a lesbian who was mad at me and called me a lipstick lesbian. Hel-lo, I'm sitting in a bar talking to friends and having a drink. Do you even know anything about my orientation? Maybe it was the kind of drink I was having? LOL.
But for the most part, everyone was great fun when I went. I found a lot of the women are very forward but polite, they had no problems coming up to me and talking. I got the feeling though that it is alway the same crowd at these things b/c there was often a "new meat" kind of vibe. But all and all, lots of fun. And sometimes, it was nice to not be hit on by men. Now, I'd do alot to get hit on but you know, not to have my game face on while out with friends at the time was a nice change. That sounds vain, it's not coming out right. Is any of this making sense? I'm very tired.

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 6:43pm
Ah sometimes I really like the way hubby thinks. We were supposed to go do groceries but instead he says "why don't you just order pizza and we'll do groceries tomorrow?". Sold!
So, you are going to meet a guy you met on MySpace, would it be the bald guy? And DH doesn't know. I'm fascinatead by this. When DH finds out will he be mad? What is the purpose of meeting this guy? Sexual? Friendship? Do you hope to have a boyfriend? Or maybe bring this guy into the marriaage like you did your girlfriend? I am envious of this. DH says I'm being hurtful when i talk of wanting a girlfriend. Sigh. Some girls have all the luck. Where are you going? Maybe you've left already and don't need fashion help anymore. If so, what did you decide to wear? Will you give out your Myspace handle? Just wondering cuz you asked mine. Really I just want to see pics. I'm obsessed. I can't help it, it drives me wonky not to know what you all look like! LOL.

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 7:07pm

hey toots!


well it's weird cuz I've only seen the guys do this at work, so I don't know what's behind my uneasiness.

 

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Fri, 03-10-2006 - 7:56pm
So sorry you are still feeling under the weather, it's been all week huh?
Go have a hot bath, drug yourself up if you take meds, and crawl into bed in comfy pj's and watch t.v. till you crash. It's the only way to shake it. Hope you fell better soon.

 

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Sat, 03-11-2006 - 9:55am
The guy I met last night was not the bald guy, it was another friend I've had on there a long time.


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