Whats your number??

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Registered: 05-01-2013
Whats your number??
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Tue, 08-20-2013 - 4:58pm

Im seeing a guy thats 30 and he admitted to me he has only had sex with 2 people in his life. He says he gets nervous around girls. I decided to change the subject before he asked about my number. He says hes not the type of person that can sleep around. I dont sleep around but have, slept with 7, im 28. Is it weird hes only been with 2 people or am I over thinking it?

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Thu, 08-22-2013 - 9:16am

Not at all weird. He's well within normal range. Since the sexual revolution in the 1960's, there is wide divergence in people's life histories. There are people who remain with their first partner, like my brother, age 48. There are still people who remain virgins until they marry. (Not me or my brother) I know a number through my religious connections. Then, there are those who have 100 or more partners.

FYI. I am 50, married, and have had intercourse with 4 women.

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Registered: 05-18-2008
Sat, 08-24-2013 - 3:45pm
It is not weird at all. It is probably pretty normal. My BF was with only one or two women before me (one of them he was married to for 15 years). My number is over 35.
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Registered: 02-13-2006
Mon, 09-09-2013 - 11:20pm

You're over thinking it...it's normal.Believe it or not...not everyone started to have sex in their teens.I started at age 29 and I've only had sex with 3 people in my life so far and I'm now 38! Also people like myself with low numbers...we don't look down at people with huge numbers... all of us go through things in our lives...some experience live more then others...that's just how it goes sometimes.At least you have someone whom you know will probably not play any mond games with you.Just enjoy his company and take your time...no rush.

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Tue, 09-10-2013 - 5:26pm

I agree with honestgirl31....

My number is 10.........

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Registered: 09-06-2013
Wed, 09-11-2013 - 9:41am

i am not so sure about the not judging part because i had one guy who told me he was well over 100 before he was 18 and he was a lot older than me. i was in my early 20's and only had been with 1 guy so i was like OH HELL... exit stage left. and it wasnt really that i was judging his choices but that was jus a bit much for my taste

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Registered: 09-11-2013
Thu, 09-19-2013 - 12:16pm
It is not weird since it sounds like he is shy. Just know that you may need to show him some things but that can be fun :) If both of you are truly compatible then there is nothing you cannot overcome as a couple.
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Registered: 11-04-2012
Sat, 09-28-2013 - 5:25pm

Nothing weird about that.  My hubby is 54 and I'm the 2nd woman he's been with.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 09-29-2013 - 1:17pm
I'm 30 and I've been with 12 (including my now husband, who is #12 lol)
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Registered: 11-18-2011
Wed, 10-02-2013 - 2:15pm
Since the beginning of my sex life....I think maybe 48
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Registered: 10-25-2013
Fri, 10-25-2013 - 8:38pm
My number is 7 and I'm 61. But, been with one many years and our sex has gotten better and better. We have tried it all and settled on what we like and how we like it and I still love to please her. I can't get enough of her and our orgasms are still great together. I love it when she gets off.

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