When did you know - Part 2

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When did you know - Part 2
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:02pm

When did you know it WAS NOT love?


I imagine we've all been there with a former SO or partner with either funny stories or not, but how did you know they certainly were not the one for you!!

 

 

 

 

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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:08pm

With my EX, It was when my mom died in 2001. First of all I had to ask him to come and be with me shortly after she passed away ( she died of cancer at home) and then he said at some point that afternoon that " he was glad she was gone cause he never really liked her anyways"....
It still took me another 4 years to actually get the guts to leave but I know it was over that day...

Jenn

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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:13pm

Holy crap, that is just awful.



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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:13pm

Well I'd say so. I'm sorry to hear about your mother, and the insenitivity that came with it.


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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:35pm
Yeah he was never the sharpest tool in the shed... Hes in big trouble for a DUI right now... Glad I got rid of him when I did.....
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 6:36pm
I knew it wasn't love in the span of a month...the first beating he gave me, then the threatening and then causing me to get arrested while he hightailed it out of there with his tail between his legs...my god what was I thinking?!
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 8:12pm
there was one who cheated with my friend and slept with her underage sister... enough said!
I'm glad it happened. I might not have met "the one" if it didn't! =D
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 9:26pm

I was still in love with my ex when I left him.

 

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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 10:43pm
With my ex I knew it was not love when one day while I was at school (I was in college) I was having a snack with this guy in my class.
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 11:04pm

I realized that I no longer was "in love" with my EX when we were sitting next to each other at HS graduation. I was listening to one of the graduation speeches and it kind of hit me that not once when I was making my plans did I ever consider him. Two days later, I broke it off. I spent the rest of the summer just hanging out with who is now DH. Knowing he was not the one was confirmed when I found out we were going to live on the same dorm floor. He would not leave me alone! By the end of the semester, I had moved home. The next school year, I transferred schools and haven't heard from him since. It ended up getting really nasty with his mother calling my mother to "talk sense in to me". LMAO!

Eight years later, I ran in to his mother at my church while I was on maternity leave. The person she was with was a good friend of my family. This friend just started in bragging about how great my DH was and how adorable my baby was! It's awful of me to say...but I left with a HUGE smile on my face after seeing her reaction.


"Seduce my mind and you can have my body.

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Wed, 08-23-2006 - 9:13am
When she came over for dinner with the family and brought pictures of a wedding dress and the actual vail she was going to where at our wedding! We had only been dating a month and I was only 18 and nowhere close to ready for marriage!

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