When did you know - Part 2
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When did you know - Part 2
| Mon, 08-21-2006 - 2:02pm |
When did you know it WAS NOT love?
I imagine we've all been there with a former SO or partner with either funny stories or not, but how did you know they certainly were not the one for you!!

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With my EX, It was when my mom died in 2001. First of all I had to ask him to come and be with me shortly after she passed away ( she died of cancer at home) and then he said at some point that afternoon that " he was glad she was gone cause he never really liked her anyways"....
It still took me another 4 years to actually get the guts to leave but I know it was over that day...
Jenn
Holy crap, that is just awful.
Well I'd say so. I'm sorry to hear about your mother, and the insenitivity that came with it.
:)
I'm glad it happened. I might not have met "the one" if it didn't! =D
I was still in love with my ex when I left him.
I realized that I no longer was "in love" with my EX when we were sitting next to each other at HS graduation. I was listening to one of the graduation speeches and it kind of hit me that not once when I was making my plans did I ever consider him. Two days later, I broke it off. I spent the rest of the summer just hanging out with who is now DH. Knowing he was not the one was confirmed when I found out we were going to live on the same dorm floor. He would not leave me alone! By the end of the semester, I had moved home. The next school year, I transferred schools and haven't heard from him since. It ended up getting really nasty with his mother calling my mother to "talk sense in to me". LMAO!
Eight years later, I ran in to his mother at my church while I was on maternity leave. The person she was with was a good friend of my family. This friend just started in bragging about how great my DH was and how adorable my baby was! It's awful of me to say...but I left with a HUGE smile on my face after seeing her reaction.
"Seduce my mind and you can have my body.
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