why men marry........
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why men marry........
| Sun, 07-09-2006 - 10:52pm |
I have a theory...seems to tie in with some recent threads and I"m a long-time lurker. I see a lot of posts where men seem to be with women that have practically a nil sex drive. I think that men marry when they want to settle down...and they often do not think about compatability, etc. I think men marry because they think a women will be a good 'wife' and do not think about a woman as a life partner or how she might mesh with him when things get rough...etc... You often seee these women as letting themselves go.
Often, men seem to marry women that they are increasingly disenchanted with as the years go by....and they crave what they do not have....
Affairs result. Then divorce.
What say you?
Often, men seem to marry women that they are increasingly disenchanted with as the years go by....and they crave what they do not have....
Affairs result. Then divorce.
What say you?

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"My dh knew that I wasn't good "wife" material, lol.
And my advice for women would be - "The first year you are married, every time he gives you a compliment without being asked, every time he brings you flowers, every time he takes you out without you having to beg, put a dollar in a jar.
LOL - You're so right.
"1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!"
LOL ...Ahhh yes. After 16 years of marriage, I have learned this pretty well. Although I do find myself hinting around from time to time, I usually catch myself and just spit it out.
It's so true. Why do alot of women insist on doing this? I dunno...but it makes me think of "Home Improvement" when Tim Taylor does a segment on his show Tool Time about what street signs would say if women wrote them.
One was: IF YOU REALLY LOVED ME YOU WOULD KNOW WHAT I WANT YOU TO DO RIGHT NOW
LOL!!
also try to be less of an a#@Hole
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