Would you work as a dominatrix?

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Would you work as a dominatrix?
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Tue, 03-28-2006 - 3:31pm

There's a chick on Dr. Phil today who used to work in a BDSM club.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2006
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 5:29pm
I heard of these clubs but I'm afraid I would start giggling if a stranger asked me to spank/whip him!
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Registered: 12-22-2005
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 6:38pm

Have never done it, but I've heard/read that people who aren't domineering in their real / everyday life tend to lean toward it (or be good at it).

 

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Registered: 03-17-2006
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 7:11am

I would think that most of the people that do this do it for the money.

If they get into it for sexual pleasure I would imagine them having a select person/group that were there subs and "force" them to pleasure the dom.

I tend to be more submissive in my sex lif but don't think I could ever go to a club like this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2005
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 7:49am
sounds like fun but I can't imagine doing it myself...did she get paid well?
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 8:03am
no, because I myself like to be dominated. :)


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Registered: 03-20-2006
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 8:33am

Would I? Yes.

Could I? I don't know. I've got unresolved anger issues with my ex, so I would have to be very careful that I wouldn't take that anger out on an unsuspecting male. It's why we won't look for a male sub to play with, because I'm afraid I'd do damage. Course if it was a male would really enjoyed pain, or if my job as a dominatrix was to inflict harsher treatment, then yes I could easily do it!

Course, I'd have to request that he pleasure me at the end, or have Dh ready for me, cause it would just get the juices flowing.

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 1:23pm
What nicer than to be paid for doing something You love? I'd use the money to have the world's best designer leather wardrobe, sexiest boots and most elegant gloves. I couldn't work in a club - it would have to be in private practice. I'd also need a networking arrangement with other Dommes to weed out the creeps and curiosity seekers. I know I could be very hard core. If the slave were extremely obedient and showed Me a high pain threshold, I'd possibly have him finish Me, then maybe even himself.
Just a final thought - I could have My boi assist, dressed in his maid's uniform! Where is he now when I need him?
Madame P
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 1:29pm

Could you see yourself doing that kind of job?
OH HELL YEAH!!!

If you did, would it be just for the money or would you get into it?
PERHAPS BOTH!LOL

 

 

 

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Registered: 07-26-2004
Wed, 03-29-2006 - 2:12pm

Most people who dominate others, do not do it for money. Also, it's not about the submissive pleasuring the dominant sexually. It's a power exchange. Submission for Control. Both parties get something out of it.

I'm not a dominatrix. Could I give someone a satisfying spanking? Yes, but I wouldn't do anything for money. Only for love.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 3:32pm

>>>did she get paid well?<<<


Apparently not that well because she quit the dom job to be a stripper.

 

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