You or your SO?

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Registered: 02-04-2005
You or your SO?
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Sun, 04-02-2006 - 6:26pm

Who initiates more of the action in your relationship, you or your SO? Not just sex but the ideas of things like going to a strip club, introducing new toys, or positions, inviting a third partner, etc.

I'm curious as many of the female posters here seem to be the "active" one in the relationship.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 6:58pm
I would say it's about equal, I certainly introduce all the toys though.


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Registered: 12-22-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 7:06pm

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 7:09pm
I do, but she's a really good sport about listening to my proposals.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 8:32pm
Now those are two lines I'd LOVE to hear my wife say!!!! :)
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Registered: 02-04-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 8:33pm
steve,
Is your wife open to alot of taboo stuff or is she at least open to talking about it without getting upset?
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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 8:46pm
Tampa-man, my DW is open to talking about all of it, and doing some of it.
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Registered: 02-19-2006
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 10:09pm
"Who initiates more of the action in your relationship, you or your SO?"
DH has been open to most initiatives of some toys, video rentals, ideas, and events, but some He is not and so they remain yet untried. He has yet to initiate any toys, vids, fantasies, etc on/of His own and is not the One who is usually getting things going.

respectfully,

-deka

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Registered: 02-04-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 10:21pm
Thats really cool! Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 10:28pm

Ok, is us forming an intervention to snatch and grab Mrs. Tampa-Man to teach her what she's missing a TOS?


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Registered: 10-14-2003
In reply to: tampa_man
Sun, 04-02-2006 - 11:30pm
I think it's me... initiating and stuff is pretty equal, but as far as suggesting new things or bringing in toys or whatever, it's usually me.

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