2 differnt ideas of rough
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2 differnt ideas of rough
| Sun, 07-27-2008 - 11:58am |
Okay, I am new here , and kinda embarassed to post. I have been lurking looking for an answer to my dilemma. Me and H have totally different ideas of what rough is. I have tried giving subtle hints while DTD like placing his hands on my neck, or biting him in hopes for a return but no luck. My sex drive has spiked since I had my baby and I can't stop fantasizing about it. I have had some very rough sex before and loved it. So how do I get him to try some new things, I don't want to have to put it out there in black and white cause that kinda takes the fun away from it. Any advice??









You might try a Google search for "BDSM: A Guide for Nice Guys" and then mention the site to him. Ask what he thought about it. Tell him you thought it was sort of interesting. It might be just the thing to head him in the right direction. This way, you're leading him to the water but not trying to make him drink.
At a minimum, it should be a way to open a dialog.
Hope this helps
Hi and welcome itattookitten. It's so nice to meet you. I am glad you came out of lurkdom, although you do realize that once you come out you can't go back.... lol... The people here are awesome, so stick around and jump in anytime.
You've gotten some great advice. Do check out the website that was given to you and have hubby look at it with you. It is something you need to talk about away from the bedroom. Why not some day just ask him what his fantasies are, then take it from there.
Hi and welcome erin. Nice to meet you. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks a million! Stick around and jump in anytime, the people here are great!
I'm glad to hear that things are going good. But telling him what you want doesn't mean you're in control.