30 Day Challenge!

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30 Day Challenge!
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Mon, 03-03-2008 - 10:28am

Good Morning Fantasy Land!


I heard on the radio about this 30 day challenge.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:08am

nhgal2006

That's why I don't bother bringing it up anymore...
Well, I do, just not as frequently...

I cannot remember what I said to get that reply up above.

Please refresh my memory.

Male65401

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the thingsyou didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines.Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your
sails.Explore. Dream.Discover" ...

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:15am

I think that is what brings some of us here because it's obvious that there are sympathetic ears who are experiencing the same things.


cbh





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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:34am

"DH rolls the opposite way from me in bed. Usually if I am dying for affection I will ask if he will rub my back"


I can find myself rolling the other way sometimes when I really think it's not going to be appreciated. I do like to touch her because my fingers are just extensions of my emotions. I am always tapping my fingers. Generally though it backfires on me because she just falls asleep. I can see the complement in it. It takes her day's frustrations away. But sometimes I would like it to be the prelude to some reciprocation. It almost never is. We have talked about it many times. She knows what I like. I try to know what she likes. I would just like to meet in the middle somedays. I think you feel somewhat similar.


PS: I love to give backrubs and if I do say so myself, I am pretty good at it. ;-)


cbh






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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:37am

Silly, this is what you said...


Hey thats my wife. One ear and out the other. Then if I bring it up,I get attitude from her.

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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:43am

"Could you call my husband ASAP"


Since joining here I have always been amazed at all the HL women here who are wishing they had a husband who wanted sex as much as they do. I sit here thinking how lucky they are to have what so many of us husbands wish they have. Sure it's all about perception, but I just get annoyed when I know there are those who have it and don't realize what they have.



"Really....I hear you!!!...Can you talk to him I wil give you his phone number!!! Please call!!!"


LOL, I don't know how much of an influence I would able to have over him. You seem like someone who can have a very good ability to influence him. You know what you want and you go and get it I bet.


ps: happy belated birthday Jordan, did you do anything fun for your birthday? ;-)


cbh





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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:48am

"You'll never know if YOU don't ask!"


I agree with that statement. I am a firm believer in communication. The problem is that we have very intimate conversation in and out of the bedroom. She tells me that she understands what I am looking for and it makes me believe that she will make an effort, but the next time we cross that bridge, it's right back to what it was before we talked. It's in one ear and out the other. I won't stop trying, it just gets a little discouraging is all.


cbh





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Registered: 01-28-2008
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 9:03am

"Why is it that our partners wnat to try and control the amount of sex we get"


I know it's a perception thing and everyone is an individual. I just know that when I have sex with my wife I feel great, I feel closer to her, I feel good knowing she is feeling good, etc, etc. I just don't understand why she or anyone who doesn't love sex doesn't think that way. I know that everyone thinks for themselves. but when you think one way it's hard to understand the other person's position. But I do try to accept her position on it, I just can't say I am happy with it.


cbh





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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 10:03am

Ohh ok, I see now. Thanks

Male65401

I feeel much better now

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the thingsyou didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines.Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your
sails.Explore. Dream.Discover" ...

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 10:06am

Exactly how I feel, I have been trying to find those words. Here is one for you.

When we do have sex sometimes it is earth shattering. She is comming off the bed. But could rather care less if she ever does it again.
That is what I do not understand

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the thingsyou didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bow lines.Sail away from the safe harbor.Catch the trade winds in your
sails.Explore. Dream.Discover" ...

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Registered: 07-09-1998
Fri, 03-07-2008 - 10:38am
I think you feel somewhat similar. Yes I do! I so would like there to be equal emotions.

PS: I love to give backrubs and if I do say so myself, I am pretty good at it. ;-) I am a sucker for a back rub... rub my back and I am yours..it's that easy. Ok, I am easier than that on week 3...it's week 3...teehee







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