BDSM Wednesday

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BDSM Wednesday
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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 7:44am

I hereby declare today as BDSM wednesday.What a great way to get over hump day!











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Registered: 02-17-2008
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:02am

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Registered: 08-03-2006
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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:11am




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Registered: 08-03-2003
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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:11am

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Registered: 04-26-2008
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:12am

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Registered: 08-03-2006
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:19am
I was quite nervous my first time to a fetish club, at that time I had no experience in the lifestyle and I was quite young. A friend of mine got me all dolled up in a corset etc. and took me. I can't say I was afraid of what I might see, but more afraid of going in without a whole lot of knowledge and how the people would react to me. I found it to be a very warm and inviting atmosphere. Everyone was super nice and very willing to talk to me and teach me a bit about things, which was amazing. Some people do go to extremes, ones that other people would deam unspeakable, but in general I've never run across anything that really shocked me in an environment like that.

Lothiriel


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Registered: 03-17-2008
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:26am

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Registered: 08-03-2003
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:32am
Thanks for telling me about your experiance. I was also wondering how people would react to a "new" person, just going in to check things out. If you dont' mind me asking, on your first visit did you participate or did you just ask questions and watch?
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Registered: 08-03-2006
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:40am
I had just turned 18 the first time I went, and I felt a little akward being so young as well. I mainly just asked questions and watched. I met alot of interesting people, some I am still friends with to this day.I was facinated by the whole thing, by the end I really wanted to participate but being such a novice I didn't want to experience such things the first time with a complete stranger. To be honest, its way more meaningful to have those firsts with someone you love and trust and it's safer as well. People are also pretty cool about you not wanting to watch something, or if something makes you squemish they're not going to take offense to you exusing yourself. I have never had to do this, but I do know people who saw something that struck them as a little extreme and she just respectfully excused herself.

Lothiriel


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Death: You get what everyone gets....you get a lifetime.....

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Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:47am

Is this something you do?No

Something you fantasize about? Absolutely

Are you the Dom or sub? Submissive

If you were into BDSM would you be the Dom or sub? submissive

Have you ever been to a BDSM club? Nope, but I would love to go to one

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Registered: 08-03-2003
In reply to: male65401
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:48am
I am glad you had such a good experinace. Have you ever been back to that club?
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