Bye

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Registered: 05-23-2011
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Mon, 08-29-2011 - 9:31pm

So this will be most likely the last message I post on this site.

I chose this board to say all of this because this is the one I have most frequented.

I have enjoyed writing the story I have started and then started to talk to some people on here.

I have talked to many fun and sweet people on here recently such as: BL, Michelle, and Secret. This site seems to have a kind CL.

I made the stupid mistake of browsing other boards and found someone else that I thought was being disrespected without deserving it on another site.

I do not hold back my thoughts and decided to call the person out on the main boards on the other board. I tried to be respectful. Maybe I should have messaged that person in private in retrospect. But I still feel what I did was right. People should not judge others that they know nothing about.

It seems as if most people disagreed with me and I am totally okay with that. When we respectfully disagree then things can be discussed and discussion is a good thing. Not everyone has to agree with me.

But when I get disespected for no reason and called out

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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: roberto38
Tue, 08-30-2011 - 7:15am

Hi Roberto,

I'm sorry that you've been feeling attacked.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: roberto38
Tue, 08-30-2011 - 7:36am

NO, NO, NO..... DO NOT LET OTHERS STOP YOU FROM BEING HERE! (yes, I am yelling). I don't want you to stop posting!

I hate when anyone is attacked on any of these boards. None of us are perfect, and until someone is actually in another person shoes, they have no right to bash them.



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Registered: 08-07-2011
In reply to: roberto38
Tue, 08-30-2011 - 9:59pm
Oh no hun :( I really wish you wouldn't do this...you'd be missed around here.
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Registered: 05-23-2011
In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 12:18am

BL

Yes, and I could not have said this any better myself!

But it still seems like most people do not want me around here and the last thing that I want to do is make other posters around here uncomfortable.

What makes me sad is that some people feel like I play games and mean harm when all I have tried to do is to have fun and to mean good.

I am not happy with the site and with any of the CL's on here besides Michelle but again there are a few nice people on here that I would like to talk to more with. If they would like that also of course.

But probably

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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 12:35am

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In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 9:53am

You will be missed. I notice when any good writer/person leaves or stops posting.


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Registered: 05-23-2011
In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 10:59am

I really do appreciate that.

:smileyhappy:

But I am really not that great of a writer nor am I even close to perfect. I am not sure that I ever pretended as if I were either of those things and yet still some people have felt that it was there right to judge me.

But I still sense that there are some 'spies' on here who have nothing else to do then to call people out and judge those who they do not like and I just refuse to have to worry about every single thing that I post knowing it will be 'scrutinized'.

It is just not right in any way.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 12:20pm

Hi,

As I said, you are welcome to continue posting on the boards; however, continuing to discuss other members in this manner only further disrupts the

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Registered: 05-23-2011
In reply to: roberto38
Wed, 08-31-2011 - 12:44pm

Well to be honest with you this Fantasies board is not the 'community' that I am really frustrated with.

I simply have been 'posting' on here because this is the one I have posted the most on and there are a few nice people on here that may read this.

I only started 'discussing other members in this manner' because I felt like I was totally