College Life

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Registered: 04-19-2014
College Life
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Sat, 04-19-2014 - 4:17pm

My college roommate recently walked in on my boyfriend and I having sex. I can honestly say that it was my fault since I failed to lock the door. We had music playing, so I suppose that she had no way of hearing us. We were in the heat of the moment, consumed in our passion and having sex like wild animals. I was competely naked on top of my boyfriend with my back facing him and my front facing the door. When she came in I was consumed with passion and was in another world. My boyfriend however was not I guess. He said that she was like "I am sorry" and started to back out, but my boyfriend said not to worry about it. She had brought her boyfriend to our apartment and he came in. My boyfriend and I have still not stopped having sex at this point, much less covering up. To make a long story short, they ended up having sex in the same room as us. 

My roommate asked me the other day if we could "swap" sex partners. I told her that I had to think about it and talk to my boyfriend about it. My boyfriend seems to be jumping at the chance to be with another woman with my approval. I told her that the only way that I would do it is if we were all in the same room and able to see each other. (No secrets in other words) They agreed. We are set up for the group sex next week. This will be my first time very doing something like this. 

Can anyone else share their experience? Tell me how it was for them... 

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Registered: 11-11-2013
Sun, 04-20-2014 - 7:00am

The main question is can you handle seeing your partner with somebody else and can he handle it and how about the other couple,my wife and I have been going to swingers cllubs for years and we don't exchange partners because we are both jealious people so that is the rule,but we like to watch and be watched,but we do know long time couples who swing AKA  [in the lifetsyle] and they are just fine. The key is communication RIGHT NOW so you can get the feelings out and talk about them and look at what is OK and what is not[kissing,oral ect ?] and then make sure it never brought up in anger. You also have the right to say stop or no at any time. This girl is your roommate so you really really need to make sure she is OK with it since you live together and don't want conflict when its over.

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Registered: 11-11-2013
In reply to: ctown75
Sun, 04-20-2014 - 8:23am

On the fun side it is hot to watch and be watched as you found out,the sighnts and sounds are over the top and having a new person who does things your partner might not do can be great also[Threesome experince long ago].You also need to talk about protection from STDs so have condoms.Make it FUN which takes a lot of pressure off  and be ready if one of the guys ends faster then the other or has problems getting it up or keeping it up which happens sometimes.

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Tue, 04-22-2014 - 2:45pm

Good advice.  You should also have a safe word and an understanding that if one person says the safe word everyone and everything stops-no questions ask.  Also, would be wise to keep the drinking under control so no one loses their senses.  Making it fun could be good.  Perhaps play strip poker and if someone loses all their clothes then they have to do something to the new partner if they lose such as kiss the person and then make it more sexual with each loss.  That might be a way to ease into the sex aspect.  Finally are you prepared for a situation such as everyone wants to do it again but you don't?

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Registered: 11-11-2013
In reply to: ctown75
Wed, 04-23-2014 - 12:58am

Chicago2007-is also right on.I have seen people feel they have to get drunk to do it and that does not turn out well ,so like he said limit the drinking and the game Idea is great,I did that one time with a couple and it was a very good time with no losers[lol]. His last line hits the mark,so put the feelings out if you want to do it or not and is it cheating if one of you do it without the other,because that pops up. Hope you have a GREAT TIME.

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 04-23-2014 - 5:32pm

Forgot to add to tell us how it went.  Especially if it was good.  Some of us live vicariously.

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Registered: 07-03-2006
Thu, 05-15-2014 - 2:43pm
Wasn't really a couple swap but had sex with 4 girls one after the other while the others watched. During the 4th the other 3 girls started making out. Was amazing.

 


 


 


 


 

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Registered: 04-19-2014
Fri, 08-15-2014 - 10:30pm

I apologize for not logging in to give you all an update sooner. We went through with the threesome and loved it! We used protection and had a safe word. I loved it so much that we later had my first "gangbang". My boyfriend and her boyfriend brought a bunch of guys over. I would have to guess around 10 or 12 and I had sex with all of them. The only rules were to use a condom and if I said stop to stop, which they did. My roommate also had sex with all of them and then we had sex together. In total, I had sex with 15 people that night. It was amazing. I do not regret it and would do it again. 

Please share any similar experiences any of you might have. I want an honest persepective from another woman who has either done this or something similar. What were your thoughts and feelings about it? Would you do it again?

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Registered: 08-24-2014
In reply to: lifeone1
Sun, 08-24-2014 - 6:11am

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 08-27-2014 - 4:00pm
Sounds like a wild time and thanks for the update.