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Tue, 09-04-2012 - 11:48pm
I have had acouple online gfs yea i know i need to get out more lol but one thing i fell in love with is cyber sex i have a very vivid imagination and have played rpgs like ad&d and rp in chat rooms both sexual and nonsexual going on almost 15 years ive had some real fun in that time i know im not the only one out there that enjoys it i know anyone can say there a 20 something woman when there really a 40 something man hey ive rped women before and think im very convincing but never hid that i am male i would like to know im not the only one that likes to cyber lol

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Registered: 10-29-1998
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Tue, 09-11-2012 - 1:56am

I enjoy talking to ladies in real life as well as online preferably when we can be friends and discuss things we are both interested in including sex is she is interested. Fantasy cybersex is fun if we are both interested.

I have also been curious if others on these boards talk together about sex or other subjects. There used to be a chat room here where a group got together every night for a joint discussion which I enjoyed very much. A lot of couples went in private rooms and had private sessions which I suspect were mostly sexual. Wish they still had that. This is such a congenial group that people can have pleasant conversations which I have never found on any other web sites. I very seldom go to any other message boards because of this. I do read female erotic writing at times, but have lost most of the websites I used to know.

When I read what I just wrote, it kind of explains why I think we would have a lot better world if women were more represented in politics and business. I find the atmosphere with women is more congenial than most groups that are predominately male. Actually both sexes can make a tremendous contribution and if the world discovers this we might be able to solve some of the problems we currently have.

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Registered: 09-27-2005
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Thu, 09-13-2012 - 9:28am

Cyber sex is some ways has now become sexting. I remember when people were put down for cyber sex a few years ago. Now everyone seems to embrace sexting.  I am not trying boast here. When a female friend sends me an innocent text message, say about work or the weather,in just a few texts later it somehow becomes flirtatious, then before you know it, we are  sexting. It jsut happens...It seems as if we are all drawn to the excitement of the thrill.If we were in the same room we would not be having the same conversation. But since we are across town, or across the state, we are having a sexual conversation. This has happend with married and single lady friends of mine. It is not planned, it just happens.

 

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Registered: 03-17-2009
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Thu, 09-13-2012 - 9:58am

Hi Mrthadius,

I've rarely cybered, but the times I have, I did enjoy it.  I like to know the person, have conversations, know who they are and what they like, first, though. I guess that means I like the person to be a friend, or at least acquaintance.  It's a rush when a friend knows my buttons and can use that type of opportunity to push them.  Its a pretty good time.  If I wasn't married, I might do it again sometime.       I like trying things at least once - and considered cybering with a random person, but never did it.  Its just not me.

I have spoken with someone who admitted that he fakes who they are and cybers.  That's not how I met that person, but the topic did come up.   

I'd like to know why people fake their identity - what someone gets out of pretending to be another gender/age online... etc.  I realize it is sexual gratification, but I'd like to know more.  Why does someone decide its ok to trick someone else?  What sexual drive/fantasy,  is so strong, that it convinces a person that it's ok to abuse someone else's trust?  And does the "fake" have regrets after?  ha, probably not.  Fantasy is so different for everyone, I imagine the reasons why decent/good/regular people fake/lie would make for an interesting read. 

But I doubt anyone would reply to a post like that, lol.  

 Ivy

 


 


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Registered: 10-29-1998
Thu, 09-13-2012 - 11:34pm
raining_ivy wrote:

Hi Mrthadius,

I've rarely cybered, but the times I have, I did enjoy it.  I like to know the person, have conversations, know who they are and what they like, first, though. I guess that means I like the person to be a friend, or at least acquaintance.  It's a rush when a friend knows my buttons and can use that type of opportunity to push them.  Its a pretty good time.  If I wasn't married, I might do it again sometime.       I like trying things at least once - and considered cybering with a random person, but never did it.  Its just not me.

I have spoken with someone who admitted that he fakes who they are and cybers.  That's not how I met that person, but the topic did come up.   

I'd like to know why people fake their identity - what someone gets out of pretending to be another gender/age online... etc.  I realize it is sexual gratification, but I'd like to know more.  Why does someone decide its ok to trick someone else?  What sexual drive/fantasy,  is so strong, that it convinces a person that it's ok to abuse someone else's trust?  And does the "fake" have regrets after?  ha, probably not.  Fantasy is so different for everyone, I imagine the reasons why decent/good/regular people fake/lie would make for an interesting read. 

But I doubt anyone would reply to a post like that, lol.  

 Ivy

Ivy,

I enjoy reading your responses to the various threads I have seen you on. What are the threads you follow so I can make sure I don't miss reading you somewhere? You come across as a very interesting and honest  young lady. Thanks for your contributions to these boards.

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Registered: 08-08-2011
In reply to: tonynow
Fri, 09-14-2012 - 1:27am
tallguydancing: "I have also been curious if others on these boards talk together about sex or other subjects. There used to be a chat room here where a group got together every night for a joint discussion which I enjoyed very much. "

Hi,
Could you give us some hint, which "this chat rooom" is? I'm just curious in some nice cyber talk, which could include sex if other party interested, but don't wan't to spent weeks of wandering through chat rooms and finding a good one. It is true what you say, that to much of uncontrolled testosterone makes a battlefield out of any social interaction. I share your opinion that world would be better place to live if female princip would be more present and evident in social life.
Thanks.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-1998
Fri, 09-14-2012 - 4:55am

Tony,

There was a change in iVillage and the new people did away with the chat room. I wish I could find another one like it with people like the ones here on it. Does anyone know about a good chat room with nice people and good relationships. It would be nice if there were some sexual discussion on it and the ability to meet people and talk with them in private.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2009
In reply to: raining_ivy
Fri, 09-14-2012 - 8:09am
hi tallguy, I like discussing sex in the open, so I visit the few sex boards here. I hop around to different threads. I used to have longer thread conversations and follow them more closely, but it's more sporadic for me these days. And my comments are definately shorter than they once were. ~ There are men and women here that I respect and regard as smart and sexy. Although I keep that to myself. ~ "Honest"... yes, I feel that I am. "Interesting"... well, that depends on the company and the day, lol.
Ivy

 


 


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Registered: 08-08-2011
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Fri, 09-14-2012 - 9:37am

This thread made me curious.

Even if Internet is part of my bread-learning job, I never tried chat rooms or irc before. So I tried today and I was....
... a kind of kicked. I didn't realized before that people would be willing to turn their camera on and masturbate in front of it and do what you say even not knowing who is on the other side. Well, someone will say - you naive, but I was a little bit shocked.

I like to protect my privacy, but some people obviously think different.

I also noticed that people are generally nice and considerate on those chat rooms. They just do their sex life online. 
And that there is somewhat 1:100 female:male ratio. When logged in as a female there was a swarm of harrasing men after me. Now I know how ladies would feel in some environments. My sympathies to you all...

But it is really hard to find a chat room with a decent and mature sex talk. I didn't find a single one in my few hours quest. 
On most chat rooms there was  tons of that macho and rough talk, you now: "Hey babe, u like **ck?" and like that. I guess this is the reason for a 1:100 ratio.

So, this is that. I'm sorry that there is no chat room with people like here. Where you can openly talk about just anything and not beeing obstructed or judged. I really like this community and thank you all.

I'm also sorry that iVillage dont have a live chat rooms and that it is also othervise technically impaired. But that's tha way it is. Even if not perfect it is an excelent community.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2009
In reply to: raining_ivy
Sat, 09-15-2012 - 10:01am

tonynow,

Thanks for sharing the chatroom experience. Interesting to know how you found things to be.  Thanks for the sympathy, lol!  In my opinion, its good for people go the extra steps to see things through someone else's eyes.

Ivy

 


 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-29-1998
Sat, 09-15-2012 - 7:05pm

Tony,

Thanks for your post. You said some of the things I was trying to say but you were much more articulate in saying them.

Your experience with chat rooms was the same as mine. Also my wife was online one day and left the computer to me without signing off. I surfed in her name and had the same experience as you. With lines of horndogs harassing me. It is really disgusting to me that girls and women cannot use the internet with the respect they deserve. That is one reason I like iVillage because the people are pleasant and respectful. I have never been here with a female profile, so I hope that I am not coming to the wrong conclusion about your safety here. I join Tony in my sympathy for what you have to put up with  I apologize for what you go through. I like to flirt and hope I have never make a female uncomfortable.

Tony, am I correct in reading that you work is some way with the internet? If so, maybe you could set up a chat room for people from iVillage to go to.

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