Did you ever have sex with someone on vacation?

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Did you ever have sex with someone on vacation?
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Wed, 09-14-2011 - 12:30am

I came across a website called Rubi's Spa (www.rubisspa.com) where they advertise a super luxury spa which appears to have everything a lonely 50's something could ever want.

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Wed, 09-14-2011 - 7:28am

Hi and welcome JP.

Hmmm, personally, this is not something I would do, only because I would kinda



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Wed, 09-14-2011 - 9:47am

Well, that does sound like an awesome fantasy for sure!

My question is, if you are lonely simply because you and your partner are too busy.....why are you not too busy to go and do that?

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Wed, 09-14-2011 - 5:06pm

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Wed, 09-14-2011 - 10:09pm
jppeters wrote:

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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 12:55am
Yes, it is an interesting notion and one that certainly deserves some insight and consideration before pursuing. Ergo my posting here.

I suspect this is more of a "fantasy come true" than anything else and, since I have at least a high school education, I am leery of anything akin to it. That said, I am close to a friend who has participated in this "excursion from reality" at Rubi's Spa who honestly cannot stop talking about it.

She isn't a tramp (nor am I) and I don't believe she went too far (haven't asked) but the attention, the romance, the caring and just the exotic nature of it seems to have truly attracted her. Therefore, I am pressed to ask myself if this is something I would enjoy as well because...well, I'm not all that much different from her.
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 12:56am
I understand and agree that this is not "news" because women have been doing this as long (or longer) than men have. Men are just more obscene about it in my opinion but women do it as well. However, I am unsure if this is for me but due to peer influences I am bound to wonder and question.
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 12:59am
We aren't too busy for it but sometimes you wonder what the 'other side' is like, no? I mean, in such a place you are able to dream and experience fantasies in a manner you would never anticipate. Society (and morals) prevent us from from experiencing anything like this at home...but in a third world country with gorgeous Latin men?

Hmmm...I sincerely am intrigued.
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 1:04am
Of course you want to know the person, no one wants to be "that girl". But the interesting aspects of the place are that you needn't assume that "it" will occur. In fact, you can apparently go and enjoy the romance and intrigue without any pressure to take it to the next level.

So while I am not specifically interested in cheating (as you refer to it), I would possibly be interested in exploring the boundaries of doing same. I haven't problems in my relationship per se but travel schedules, business and pure stress have certainly relived us of the intimacy we used t enjoy. I'm sure life will return to some frame of normalcy but until then I find that fantasy's are fun, entertaining, harmless and intriguing.

Taking it to the level of actually "cheating"? That's something I am very unsure of. But having someone who spends their entire time doting on me and taking care of my every (non sexual) need? THAT might be very interesting to me!
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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 12:27pm

Well, sure, that part is fun to think about. I've often fantasized of being that Latin man, lol. I mean, I'm Italian and dark......maybe a little too old, lol.

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Fri, 09-16-2011 - 11:39pm
JP I've seen some soft porn with story lines about women at such places. I'm not wild about depicting a woman at a male brothel as desperate or as a cougar. I'd like to see some porn featuring women who want to simply enjoy a sexual experience, on their terms, by visiting such a place.
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