Dirty Dancing

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Registered: 09-30-2008
Dirty Dancing
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 10:18pm
As I train for my triathlon (and lose the rest of my baby weight), I fantasize about going dancing in a tight, curve-loving red dress with a slit up to my ass as a responsive, seductive, athletic man takes me dancing!
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Registered: 03-17-2008
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 2:43pm
That is so awesome Jim!

 



  


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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 3:29pm

I am so glad you agreed to meet with her and for her to apologize, although I am sorry it took her all this time. Words really do



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Registered: 11-13-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:01pm

Hi Hon!

You even SEEM like a different person when you post.

It ticks me off when people take their anger out on someone innocent and hurts them. Its inexcusable in my book.

I am however very happy that you now have some closure and reassurance from the person who hurt you.

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:44pm

Hi Sassy.... thank you for your kind words...

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:47pm

Hi there, galatea... thank you...!!!! It seems to have opened a new me... or reawakened

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:52pm

Hi NH...


I did agree to meet with her... but I wasnt aware it was about what her bf was telling her... I thought it was more about what was actually wrong with 'us'.... but I had no bone to pick... scab to pick... I could have been mean and ugly with her, but its not who I am... its not what I am about...

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 4:57pm

Hey sweetie... I do feel like a different person... I think in my previous posts, I have been hesitant to let too much of me "out"... like I needed to hide or protect a part of me...

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Registered: 01-14-2007
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 6:16pm
well, you're quite welcome....

The Sassy One

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Registered: 09-30-2008
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 7:35pm

Jim,

I agree with all these other sassy ladies. You sound like a really nice (and at the same time "not-so-nice"...when it's the right time and place for that sort of thing...) guy. I am glad you are going out there and enjoying your life after your ex said all those mean things to you. I am learning that no one can "make" you feel inferior or bad about yourself without YOUR consent...it is up to you to accept or reject what they tell you and then act accordingly. Kudos to you for helping her to feel good about herself even after she dumped on you and came crawling back to you to lean on you for support. I'm really impressed by that!

I am proud of you for taking a risk and for putting your feelings out there. I took a big risk by putting my "red dress" fantasy on here. I even used the word "ass" and I am normally a very uptight, self-righteous, and shy little lady. But like my user name indicates, I am DONE hiding! I am just waking up to the fact that my husband of almost 9 years is, in fact, an "a"-hole who will soon learn that you don't "marry above yourself" (...as he smugly proclaimed this very morning...) then treat a woman the way he has treated me. I assure you that the man I will be dancing with in the near future will NOT be him. I refuse to cheat on him--or worse--to compare him to my fling...like he did to me. He said that if only I were "1/2 my current size (like so & so...), kept the house cleaner, and satisfied him better in the bedroom, he wouldn't feel like he "had" to go on-line to talk to and "develop feelings for" other women." (...that I am almost certain he met up with while I was out of the country for a 2 week work assignment...)

Now that I am starting to look more and more hot, he has started complimenting me and coming after me more and more. Too bad he's already lost me, and he will never know what it's like to dance with me once I AM "1/2 my former size"...and bending over backwards to please another man! Thank you for giving me a safe audience with which to share my little fantasy.

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Registered: 06-02-2006
In reply to: donehiding
Tue, 10-07-2008 - 11:49pm

Hi