Distracted sex is hot

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Distracted sex is hot
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Wed, 06-15-2011 - 11:23pm

I recenty found i think it would be hot to have sex with my wife while she's distracted by tv or or a book. Is this weird? Is there a name for my new fantasy?

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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 12:02am

I'll leave it up to the creative crew to come up with a name for it. I don't think it's wierd at all. I've never acheived anything like having sex while she's still preoccupied with what she's doing but I've distracted my gf while she's reading or watching something on tv and

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 8:07am

I have no idea if there is a name for it, and I don't find it strange at all. I can't imagine that she would be distracted for long, though.



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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 10:57am
MrPandaman wrote:
Is there a name for my new fantasy?

Multitasking!

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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 11:01am

So naturally I can't help but believe that women love being pawed and poked and nibbled on while they're trying to work, or talk on the phone, or apply makeup, or wash dishes, or eat, or shower, or drive . . . right, ladies?

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 1:20pm



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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 1:28pm
I work so hard for her to want sex at all and to pay attention, I can't see how this would work for "us". In abstract, the idea of, say, coming up behind her as she is doing dishes (for those that still wash dishes by hand, when its your turn to do them) and see how long she can "ignore" what you are doing before she can't help but react sounds like fun, but only if she is "in" on it.

In practice, i've done something in reverse. I'm a huge football fan, so during a game (quite a few years ago) while I'm sitting on the couch watching the game, she starts trying to distract me.. when I ask if it could wait for halftime.. she puts on the full court press.. she never blocked the tv, but she stripped, went down on me, and eventually rode me on the couch, like a lap dance but as intercourse, and the whole time I kept my eyes on the game (sneaking an occasional look when she couldn't tell, ).

She threw up her arms like a referee after a successful field goal attempt when I came, and I did get her "back" adn then some during half time :)

Oh, and i've done the finger her to orgasm while she is driving thing, but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone nowadays ;)

And again, i'd take note of her reactions.. I stop when there is any resistance, so don't push it.... Annoying is not sexy.
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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 4:50pm

I'm not sure what it is that I like so much about it.

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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 6:20pm

Once my 30 yr old gf were lying around in bed after sex and she had to make a call to her out of town parents.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 7:43pm
Hi mrpandaman! It's good to see you.

Nothing weird or new about your Fantasy. I thinks it's just another way to enjoy some erotic play with your wife.

Enjoy your thoughts!

Mrs P

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 7:51pm
argy_bargy wrote:
So naturally I can't help but believe that women love being pawed and poked and nibbled on while they're trying to work, or talk on the phone, or apply makeup, or wash dishes, or eat, or shower, or drive . . . right, ladies?

Mrs P

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