Do You Ever Stop Yourself?

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Do You Ever Stop Yourself?
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Sun, 10-23-2011 - 10:24pm

Do you ever begin to let your mind wander toward a particular Fantasy and then stop yourself before letting it play out in your mind?

If you have done this ... why do you suppose you have?

Mrs P

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Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:48am

Absolutely I've let my mind wander in a certain direction and then stopped it mid-fantasy.

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Registered: 06-17-2006
Mon, 10-24-2011 - 8:39am

I do it constantly. One reason is because I know I need to refocus on the task at hand, usually studying. Another reason is my common sense peeks in and tries to keep me grounded and realistic so I don't get disappointed.


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Registered: 01-03-2007
Mon, 10-24-2011 - 10:23am

No, why stop? Lol!!

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Registered: 05-28-2003
Mon, 10-24-2011 - 6:28pm

No, I don't exactly stop myself, although I do often swap out one fantasy for another that seems more promising.

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Registered: 01-22-2008
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 1:33pm
No. I am out of control. L.M.A.O.
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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 1:37pm

Yes, you are, Crazy!

I don't have the desire to stop myself.

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Registered: 01-22-2008
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 1:41pm

Moon How are you?

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 1:44pm

I'm doing OK, Crazy.

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Registered: 01-22-2008
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 2:18pm

Thank you.

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Registered: 04-26-2011
Tue, 10-25-2011 - 4:57pm
I wrote a fairly epic answer to this, and the board ate it. And it was one of those, exposing, emails that I need to get the energy back up to write again.

But I have, because I thikn i've gone to farr before in a dream. I can't, even in fantasy life, take advantage of another person. If i'm abusing or dominating someone, it HAS to be beceause its a form of pleasure for them. Its what they want, at some level.

I'll try to post the details soon, but I think I had a series of fantasies and an experience as a teenager that shaped a lot about how I deal with certain things, fantasy and RL.

I can't be selfish, and basically, it doesnt' matter if I could get away with it, I just cant'do some things, and "Taking advantage" of someone are a lot of those.