Do You See Fireworks?

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Do You See Fireworks?
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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 1:30pm

In honor of the 4th of July ...


when the moment of incredible passion arrives ... the satisfying

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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:42am
either black or white ... interesting ... when it's black any sparkles ... wow on the passing out ... if that happened to me i might just panic ...
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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:45am
well i do have one that is almost done ... i think it is very hot ... don't know if it will cause fireworks ...
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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:48am
you ever stood up to fast and things go black with little white dots? Kinda like that...with the white light...its just that...bright as hell lol.....its quite an intense experience...the first time I ever passed out from an orgasm was terrifying...I didn't know what had happened afterwards...I was disoriented and my body was completely numb...its happened several other times...but now I don't freak out about anymore...if DH can take me that far...its absolutly sublime

Lothiriel


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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:52am

sounds cool ... can't say i've ever had anything like that happen ... the passing out could be quite scary and unnerving ... does dh take you there?

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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:57am
It usually happens after a particularly long and harsh play session, when my emotions are running on overdrive and every part of my body is totally over stimulated...it is scary...but so is a BDSM play session lol....its scary in a good way...DH gets a great sense of satisfaction when he can make this happen...we don't ever make a conscience effort for this to be the goal but when it does we're both wowed. Last time it happened was probably a month or so ago...to get there I generally take a lot of pain during the sex and it's usually after he's been denying me orgasm for a period of time, so my body is begging for release. THe pain causes all sorts of endorphins to release in my brain, so the pleasure starts my body doesn't know what to do and my brain becomes overwhelmed...so when he finally does allow the orgasm my body's reaction is to explode, quiver and relax all at once which causes the black out

Lothiriel


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All growth is a leap in the dark, a spontaneous unpremeditated act without benefit of experience ~Henry Miller

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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 11:05am
great that you know how to get there ... i think sex is better in general if you don't make a conscience effort to "make things happen" ... just letting the mood set the tone and the tempo ... when you can do this amazing things happen ... i also think that denying or delaying orgasm intensifies it and the body's reaction to it ... even extra long teasing builds the intensity ... i wonder if others with the fireworks have the same feelings ... delaying orgasm helps the fireworks appear ...
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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 11:07am
Thats a good question..I'd be interested to know if other people intentionally delay the O to have that intense experience. I probably go alot longer than most folks....DH made me go 14 days when I passed out the last time

Lothiriel


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All growth is a leap in the dark, a spontaneous unpremeditated act without benefit of experience ~Henry Miller

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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 11:17am
did he tease turning that time, did he bring you close and then deny, or was it just nothing ... there's a difference ... a long slow playful session ... lots of teasing and touching ... culminating in orgasm - release can be quite intense
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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 11:44am
OH no...theres always teasing and tormenting..sex sessions where he's allow to come and I'm not all during the denial period...so by the time I'm finally allowed I am BEGGING for it

Lothiriel


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All growth is a leap in the dark, a spontaneous unpremeditated act without benefit of experience ~Henry Miller

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Thu, 07-03-2008 - 1:27pm
sounds delightful ... i do enjoy teasing ... bringing them to the brink ... then letting them down ... then increasing the intensity ... repeating this several times ... just when they think they're going to be let down ... push them over the edge ... creates such marvelous Os