Does Sex Get Better When You’re In Love?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Does Sex Get Better When You’re In Love?
11
Wed, 02-04-2009 - 10:36pm

Have you ever begun a sexual relationship before falling in love?


Was the sex better after you fell in love? Does the love change things? Soften you? Make you less critical and demanding?


Read this piece and comment if you like...


Is sex better when you are in love?


glamour-photography1-1.jpg picture by mrspe2007

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 02-04-2009 - 11:25pm
I couldnt continue a relationship with someone if the sex was bad - love or no love. But, being in love does add something special to sex - it can make it better because some people (men or women) dont give it their all sexually unless they love the person.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 7:59am

Interesting question.....Personally, I do think sex with love is better. I've had the sex without and it was good, but it would have been a thousand times better with love. Sure, there were some feelings (on my part anyway), but it certainly wasn't love. I couldn't have sex without at least liking the man.



28999825.jpg picture by nhgal2006

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 8:42am

it can make it better because some people (men or women) dont give it their all sexually unless they love the person.


What about sex with a partner that you know absolutely

glamour-photography1-1.jpg picture by mrspe2007

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 8:44am

With my husband, we had sex before I knew I loved him. As the time went on and we got to know more about each other, love worked it's way into the relationship. Yeah, sex was better then. There was more

glamour-photography1-1.jpg picture by mrspe2007

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 9:50am
I totally agree with the article...love does not make the sex better ...it makes it forgivable....How long can love make it forgivable is the question??


118-3.gif picture by w8godss

 


hd-girls-1.jpg picture by w8godss

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 6:49pm

How long can love make it forgivable is the question??


For as long as you are willing to be forgiving...

glamour-photography1-1.jpg picture by mrspe2007

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 7:06pm

hourglassmoney.jpg Hour Glass Money image by auto_pick


Times up!


118-3.gif picture by w8godss

 


hd-girls-1.jpg picture by w8godss

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 10:41pm

sigh......


I know....

glamour-photography1-1.jpg picture by mrspe2007

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2007
Thu, 02-05-2009 - 11:43pm
Sex is much better when there is love. I need that emotional bond. Without it, it's just sex, a physical act, and not a very satisfying one at that, for me. I need the closeness that love brings to sex. Without it, I'd rather not bother.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2006
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 12:59pm
I have been very deeply in love and that means sexually, too, but as I have gotten older, I guess my capacity for love without sex has dwindled while my sexual desire has definitely blossomed. It's not that I ever make love to someone I don't like, but they must be, if not actually good in bed, at least compatible with me, enough to give me what I want. I'm even more affectionate and loving than I ever was, but I've discovered that I like sex and don't have to give it up just to prove that I love someone.
Cunégonde

Pages